Welcome to Betrayal Trauma Recovery. This is Anne. We're going to continue the conversation with June today.

So this is number six in all of the episodes we've had with June.

If you go to our website, BTR.org, you can click on today's episode and we will have all of the

episodes listed in order. So if you have not heard her full story, you can go to the beginning.

A lot of times on this podcast we have a victim

come on to talk about her specific situation or what happened in her specific church.

But these are issues that happen in all churches, in

non-church, in therapy offices. So I just want to make it clear that this

podcast is not pro-divorce. This podcast is pro-safety. So I'm trying to bring up all of these

different safety issues, things that women need to be aware of, things that victims need to be aware of,

so they can learn how to really clearly spot abuse and

set boundaries around abuse and hold those boundaries until the abuse has stopped.

Once the abuse has stopped, whenever that is, it could be 10 years after divorce it could be while you're still married to the person it could be at any time I don't know when that's going to happen but once the abuse has stopped

then you can ease up on your boundaries.

But safety is the most important thing.

And that is why we cover this stuff.

If you're interested in learning about your level of safety,

learning about how to set boundaries, becoming stronger with a community

of other victims who are going through what you're going through and having words to describe

what's happening to you, please join Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group.

It is our daily online support group.

There's multiple sessions a day and multiple time zones.

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