The Perture so she's going out with this dude and then this dude's brother hits on her

Now she's in the middle of family drama

Ditch or date I would love some advice about something that happened to me recently while all my third date with

Ryan may have been changed to protect the innocent we went to a birthday party together and while it was fun meeting his friends something uncomfortable happened

Ryan's brother was also at the party he's not much older than Ryan and they have the same friend group

whenever Ryan wasn't around his brother was flirting with me pretty heavily which I found inappropriate

especially since it was made clear that I was there with his brother I

didn't know how to handle the situation at the time so I just tried to ignore and stay close to Ryan

now I'm unsure whether I should tell Ryan about what happened with his brother on one hand I feel like Ryan should know what happened

especially if he's close to his brother I don't know if his brother's behavior is a one-time thing or if it's something he's done before

so I think Ryan has the right to know on the other hand I don't want to create any drama or make things awkward between him and his brother

we've only been on three dates and are still in that phase where we're seeing if this is even going anywhere

I don't know that I want to be the cause of any problems with Ryan's family especially so soon

all that said I don't want to be in that awkward situation again so I feel that I either need to tell him about what his brother did

or decide now to stop seeing him in order to avoid the drama altogether with love some advice Amber

do you ditch or do you continue to date how do you handle it my I would bring it up I mean I I wish I knew what the heavy

flirting was specifically but either way if it it was to the point where it made her uncomfortable I would bring it up

and I don't I don't think I would bring it up in a way that was like your brother was doing this well not even in an

accusatory form but I would just kind of playfully bring it up just to see how he handles it because I think the way he handles this

situation is going to give you a snapshot of how this is going to future if you continue to date it's so new in the

relationship they have no idea what the brotherly relationship is like are they always debugs to each other is there a

competitive thing going on are you ripping up like this well I after the third date I don't think I would say anything at

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