Did you lose the "RIGHT" Relationship?

Love Life With Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Education, Relationships, 971900

4.7 • 3.1K Ratings

🗓️ 23 July 2020

⏱️ 11 minutes

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Summary

Ever sat ruminating obsessively over something you could have or should have done differently in your relationship? Something you said, something you did, or something you wish you’d have done more? It’s a dreadful, sickening feeling. I know because I’ve felt it. It leads to regret, anxiety, self-loathing… not to mention a lack of appetite and insomnia. We turn over every memory, imagining where we could have been with that person had we just behaved differently. And this feeling isn’t limited to situations that have ended.

Sometimes we are still seeing someone but we have this crippling anxiety over having irreversibly damaged the relationship. We feel we’ve created a perception of ourselves in that person’s eyes that we can’t now undo. If for any of these reasons you are currently torturing yourself, this episode will be life-saving for you today. Trust me when I say it is essential.

I break down for you why you don’t need to be wallowing in pain, and why, despite everything that destructive voice inside is saying, you actually have reason to feel good today. Please also share this with someone you know who may be beating herself up right now. Life’s too short for any of us to suffer needlessly. I’m with you, friend. You’re loved.

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0:00.0	Hello there listeners and welcome to the Love Life podcast.
0:29.8	I am Stephen Hussey and today we are following up from last episode where we talked about regret
0:37.6	the feeling that you've made a huge mistake that you can't piece it back together again
0:42.9	and the feeling of loss and pain that comes with an irreversible error.
0:48.7	And this time we're going to look specifically more on relationships and particularly when
0:55.0	you feel like you've let the right relationship slip through your fingers and you think I'm
1:02.1	never going to get that back again. I've screwed up irrevocably and now I feel lost and I don't
1:10.2	know how I'm going to make it right. And this of course is reinforced when all of your loved ones
1:17.2	go oh my god what happened and you think I built up this relationship as being the one this
1:23.7	was the perfect person, society loves to reinforce this idea and now you think well if I've lost
1:29.7	the perfect person how the hell am I going to get back and make it right again. Luckily I have the
1:37.4	right man for the job. His name is Matthew Hussey of course and I'm going to pass over to Matt
1:42.6	and just a sec just before I do he mentions at the end a link to our at home retreat program where
1:49.4	you can get the whole magic of our six day retreat from the comfort of your own home wherever you
1:55.4	are right now and go through that from start to finish transform your confidence change your
2:01.3	mindset your goals your purpose where you're going and make some real decisions get clarity and
2:08.0	start taking action moving forward with your confidence today. You can get that at mhretreatathome.com
2:16.2	that's mhretreatathome.com and I'll put a link in the show notes description as well so you can
2:23.3	click it there. All right that is it from me over to Maddie Boy. One of the most fearful thoughts
2:30.5	that people have in their lives is will I ever meet the love of my life. Perhaps one of the most
2:38.6	painful thoughts that people experience is did I just lose the love of my life. We meet someone
2:47.4	we fall in love we want it to work we give anything for it to work and then we lose that person
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