My job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by Hooker Crow to get more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there is just to bring it out.

This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever

means necessary.

Welcome to the Black Girls Hill Podcast where we talk about healing our intimacy disorders and

resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and

then others. Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy

patterns and grow in your self-worth. I'm She Nelache, Love Edition

coach and trauma specialist. Let's begin.

Hello, and happy December to everyone here at Black Girls Heel. I wanted to come and do a special bonus check-in episode with everyone and share some

affirmations, some encouragement, and so resources as we go into this month. So December is my birthday month and I am very excited about that.

My birthday is December 7th for those of you who do not know that I'm a proud

Sagittarius and usually I have actually talked about my birthday more

leading up to this and so me sharing this I think this is

going to come out the week of my birthday me sharing it the week of is not normal

however my focus has been very much on my son. My son was, he was actually supposed, okay, he is having a

tonsillectomy this week and also having adenoids removed and ear tubes being put in.

And he was supposed to have all this done at the end of this month,

but like during the holiday season to not really disrupt school or anything but

his sleeping has been getting worse and all the things that come with having enlarged

tonsils and addenoids and making it harder to breathe and all that stuff and so my focus has been on that and so

Surgery has been moved up to this week and so you know I am so focused on that I'm focused on that on him

getting better on me nursing him back to health for the next two weeks they say

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