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DEBATE: Why Do Gen Z Women Hate Men So Much? - #1094

Modern Wisdom

Chris Williamson

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.65.9K Ratings

🗓️ 7 May 2026

⏱️ 106 minutes

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Summary

In this evolutionary psychology debate, we explore: - Why women feel much more negatively towards young men than young men feel about them. - Why men are more often demonised and women are seen as victims. - How differing political views are quietly becoming one of the biggest relationship dealbreakers for young people. - and much more... Guests - Freya India is a writer and journalist focused on female mental health and modern culture. - William Costello is a psychology researcher and Ph.D. student specialising in evolutionary psychology. - Dr. Tania Reynolds is an Assistant Professor in Psychology at the University of New Mexico. Sponsors: See discounts for all the products I use and recommend: ⁠⁠https://chriswillx.com/deals⁠⁠ Get up to $350 off the Eight Sleep Pod 5 at https://eightsleep.com/modernwisdom Get the brand new Whoop 5.0 and your first month for free at https://join.whoop.com/modernwisdom Get a free bottle of D3K2, an AG1 Welcome Kit, and more when you first subscribe at https://ag1.info/modernwisdom Get a Free Sample Pack of LMNT’s most popular flavours with your first purchase at https://drinklmnt.com/modernwisdom Get ChatGPT to explore ideas, solve problems, and learn faster at ⁠⁠⁠https://chatgpt.com⁠⁠ Timestamps: (0:00) Why Are Modern Women So Angry? (8:50) Do Most Women Lean to the Left? (15:37) The Rise of Male Looksmaxxing (21:10) Why Men and Women Have Different Preferences (32:38) ADoes Insecurity Make Us More Extroverted? (35:33) How Women Adapted So Well to the Modern Workplace (38:36) Are Male Mental Health Incentives Actually Pushing Against Opening Up? (53:26) The Hidden Rise of Benevolent Sexism (59:33) Do Women Find Aggression Attractive? (01:07:44) What Sex Dolls Reveal About Male Desire (01:14:10) Who Resents the Opposite Sex More? (01:19:15) Do Men Get the Ick Too? (01:21:58) Why Privileged Women Feel More Pessimisti (01:25:15) Can Men Be Victims Too? (01:28:20) Why Attractiveness Is the Ignored Privilege (01:32:59) Should You Be Friends Before Dating? (01:39:11) Is Effortless Beauty More Attractive? (01:45:04) Where to Find Everyone Extra Stuff: Get my free reading list of 100 books to read before you die: ⁠⁠https://chriswillx.com/books⁠⁠ Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic: ⁠⁠https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom⁠⁠ Episodes You Might Enjoy: #577 - David Goggins - This Is How To Master Your Life: ⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Goggins⁠⁠ #712 - Dr Jordan Peterson - How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs: ⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Peterson⁠⁠ #700 - Dr Andrew Huberman - The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain: ⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Huberman⁠⁠ - Get In Touch: Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx⁠⁠ Twitter: ⁠⁠https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast⁠⁠ Email: ⁠⁠https://chriswillx.com/contact⁠⁠ - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Did you read this new statesman article?

0:02.0

I did.

0:03.0

Okay. What did you think of that?

0:05.0

I thought it was fascinating. I thought I was concerning, but also a little bit predictable, that women are, well, there was a lot in there.

0:15.0

There was, you know, women have a bleak outlook on life and that they are also spending a lot of time online,

0:22.8

which is making everything worse, and that they dislike men so strongly more than men dislike

0:31.2

women. I think that this is to be predicted by an evolutionary framework. Throughout human history,

0:38.9

women were very vulnerable because they are targets of sexual abuse. Because they're

0:45.9

reproductively valuable, they're smaller on average. And they needed assistance getting the

0:50.2

calories for themselves and for their children. And the data suggests women's foraging

0:54.5

isn't enough to sustain even themselves. So women who signaled their vulnerability through

1:01.4

looking kind of pitiable would have been favored, but also any display beyond that. So communicating sadness, communicating need would have been favored.

1:14.8

So I think this kind of tendency towards a bleak outlook on life makes sense.

1:21.4

And in fact, women perceive themselves around the globe to be less happy, less healthy than men, both mentally and physically. And so this is a

1:30.4

common pattern. And there also seems to be like a social contagion effect to it. So if you look at

1:38.0

women's interactions, when they are sad, their partners, whoever they're interacting with becomes more sad. Their depression

1:45.8

spreads through networks in a way that men's doesn't. So there's also like a social contagion effect.

1:52.5

So I think a lot of this makes sense. And then if you look at like the men hating, it also makes

1:58.4

sense that if women needed to signal their loyalty to one another, so if they

2:04.9

were often in these patrilocal environments where they weren't around their family or kin,

2:09.8

then one way to communicate to other women, you can trust me, is by being loyal, a really good

2:16.0

friend, but also probably being a girl's girl.

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