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Life Kit

Dear LK: My parents ran a background check on my boyfriend

Life Kit

NPR

Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Business, Kids & Family

4.54.9K Ratings

🗓️ 24 September 2022

⏱️ 10 minutes

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Summary

A daughter tries to rebuild trust with her parents after they secretly ran a background check on her boyfriend. Therapist and author Nedra Glover Tawwab shares insight on how to move forward.

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Today on the show, my parents ran a background check on my partner without my permission.

0:06.0

Where do I go from here?

0:08.0

Dear Life Kit.

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Dear Life Kit.

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Dear Life Kit.

0:11.0

Dear Life Kit.

0:12.0

I have a question for you.

0:14.0

This is Dear Life Kit, from NPR.

0:17.0

How can I become a better caretaker?

0:19.0

How do I deal with my parents' unrealistic expectations?

0:22.0

And we're getting personal.

0:25.0

I'm catching feelings for someone, but they're married.

0:29.0

I'm your host, Andy Tagle.

0:31.0

Every episode, we answer one of your most pressing and intimate anonymous questions with expert advice.

0:36.0

I can't wait to assist.

0:38.0

That's today's expert, Nedra Tawab.

0:40.0

Nedra is a renowned therapist, relationship expert, bestselling author of set boundaries,

0:46.0

fine piece, and one of my favorite people to follow on Instagram.

0:50.0

Every day, she helps people create healthy relationships with themselves and others,

0:54.0

and today is no exception.

0:57.0

Stay tuned.

0:59.0

Nedra, we have a walker for you.

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