Dear Chiquis: My Partner Says He Doesn’t Know Why He Keeps Cheating on Me. Should I Leave Him?
Chiquis and Chill
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4.8 • 2K Ratings
🗓️ 28 January 2026
⏱️ 14 minutes
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Summary
This week on Dear Chiquis: An anonymous listener needs help deciding whether she should keep forgiving her partner of 21 years who keeps having affairs; Emily recently watched Mariposa de Barrio and wants to know how factually accurate the show really is; and Maria has endometriosis and asks me if I have any tips to deal with the symptoms.
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| 0:00.0 | This is an I-Heart podcast. Guaranteed human. |
| 0:27.4 | Hello, everyone. It's your big sister Cheekies and you've reached my personal voice mailbox for the Dear Cheeky's podcast. I'm here to give you a device on anything |
| 0:32.0 | and everything you need help with, whether you're going through a breakup or having issues |
| 0:36.2 | with your family, or maybe you |
| 0:37.8 | have a question about my personal life. Whatever the case is, I want to hear from you. Remember, |
| 0:42.9 | these are my thoughts and my opinions, and if you're suffering from a serious issue or hardship, |
| 0:47.3 | you should seek help from a qualified professional. All right. Now go ahead and leave your message |
| 0:52.9 | at the sound of the beep. |
| 0:58.6 | Hello, I need some advice from someone who doesn't know me. |
| 1:03.5 | I'm in a 21-year relationship with my high school sweetheart. |
| 1:06.0 | We have four amazing children. |
| 1:12.9 | And throughout the duration of our relationship, we've endured, or I've endured, multiple extramarital affairs on his behalf. |
| 1:16.7 | And I've always forgiven him. |
| 1:20.3 | He swears that he doesn't know why he does these things. |
| 1:24.9 | And I kind of believe him and I have fault of my own. |
| 1:28.5 | I'm a little emotionally withdrawn from the relationship, |
| 1:31.4 | which I know does an excuse, but it can contribute to the symptoms. |
| 1:36.2 | I just don't know what to do. |
| 1:37.9 | I love him and I could definitely continue on with him, |
| 1:41.6 | but I don't think I can continue on with this type of life. |
| 1:44.5 | It's not fair for me. It's not fair for my children. And I've seen him on his knees recently |
| 1:49.8 | begging. I'm not begging for forgiveness, but he definitely wants to change, and I just don't know how we go |
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