Dear Chiquis: My Brother-in-law Sent Me Inappropriate Messages. What Should I Do?
Chiquis and Chill
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4.8 • 2K Ratings
🗓️ 11 February 2026
⏱️ 17 minutes
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Summary
This week on Dear Chiquis: an anonymous listener needs my advice as he’s looking for the right way to come out to his parents; Ana’s brother-in-law recently sent her some very inappropriate messages through social media and that’s created a rift with her sister; and Reba has a question about a specific flag in one of my music videos.
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| 0:00.0 | This is an I-Heart podcast. Guaranteed human. |
| 0:27.4 | Hello, everyone. It's your big sister Cheekies and you've reached my personal voice mailbox for the Dear Cheekies podcast. I'm here to give you a device on anything |
| 0:32.0 | and everything you need help with, whether you're going through a breakup or having issues |
| 0:36.2 | with your family, or maybe you have a question about my personal life. |
| 0:39.5 | Whatever the case is, I want to hear from you. |
| 0:42.3 | Remember, these are my thoughts and my opinions, and if you're suffering from a serious issue or hardship, you should seek help from a qualified professional. |
| 0:50.3 | All right. Now go ahead and leave your message at the sound of the beep. |
| 0:55.3 | Hey, chickies, me does much |
| 0:57.1 | to be able to talk to you and share your story. |
| 1:00.4 | You're one of the people more strong, more chingonas, |
| 1:03.0 | that I know. But so I admire and I want. |
| 1:05.8 | I hope to see you on the scenarios. |
| 1:08.0 | Well, look, chikis, I'm 27 years. |
| 1:11.3 | I'm gay. Never have been out of the closet. Never, look, chikis, I've been 27 years. I'm gay. |
| 1:12.2 | Never have |
| 1:12.6 | been able to get from the closet. Never I've never let have told this to my papas. Never. For the the fear of the fear of defunders. When I had 8, 9 years, I was I've been touched, I've been abused. |
| 1:27.3 | Never I've said nothing. |
| 1:28.3 | So, |
| 1:29.3 | I've lived my life, |
| 1:30.3 | I've lived in my life, I've been my life, it's been my mind, that made my that made, that he made that for a time to me to me to be great, but now, I'm papas that's a boy |
| 1:44.3 | that's a child that never never did problems, that's that's that's that's a lot of a suffer, that suffer in silence. How I'm, I'm my mom, my papa, that want nieetos, that want to form a family that I can't. |
| 2:02.0 | That's the fear that I have tockon them to defraudals I want to give you, you're going to do you that's for abuse, that's what of Johnny that also is gay. I hope the heart that you me contestes Hello |
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