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Negotiate Anything

Dan Oblinger: How to Detect and Address Lies in Negotiations

Negotiate Anything

American Negotiation Institute

Business, Education, Self-improvement

4.7748 Ratings

🗓️ 19 February 2025

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Summary

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this enlightening episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian engages with guest Dan Oblinger, a seasoned police crisis and business negotiator, about effectively dealing with deception in negotiations. Dan leverages his diverse background, including his experience in ancient philosophy and ethics, to provide a comprehensive approach for navigating deceptive situations. The conversation covers a robust three-pronged strategy focused on preparation, tactical listening, and confrontation of deception without compromising professionalism. Listeners will gain valuable insights into how understanding the nuances of human behavior and active listening can uncover and manage deception in negotiation contexts. What will be covered: Dan Oblinger's unique journey from police crisis negotiator to business negotiator, and his insights into human behavior. A detailed explanation of a three-pronged strategy to deal with deception, including preparation, tactical listening, and confronting deception. Techniques for building trust and respect in negotiations to minimize the likelihood of deception. Connect with Dan Connect with Dan on LinkedIn Learn More About Dan Dan's Books Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey, I'm Kwame Christian and you are about to step into the world of Negotiate Anything,

0:06.2

the number one negotiation podcast in the world where we teach you how to make difficult conversations easier while getting more of what you want in the process.

0:14.7

Each episode is packed with practical tips and strategies from the experts.

0:19.5

We delve into negotiation, conflict resolution,

0:22.7

and leadership skills that are crucial in both business and in life. Whether you're closing a deal,

0:28.3

managing a team, or navigating personal relationships, negotiate anything provides you with the tools

0:33.9

you need to succeed. Our conversations are real, relatable, and most importantly, rooted

0:39.8

in practicality. So if you're ready to transform your conversations and elevate your negotiation skills,

0:46.2

join me on Negotiate Anything. Subscribe and listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you love to

0:52.7

listen. Let's make every conversation a winning negotiation.

0:58.6

Dan, thanks for joining us today.

1:00.9

Kwame, it's my pleasure, man. Thanks for the invite.

1:03.1

No, it's a pleasure to have you. Listeners, make sure you check out Dan's LinkedIn page,

1:08.3

just constant high-quality content. So I am super excited to have you on and share some of your brilliance with the audience.

1:15.6

Oh, stop it. Yeah. Thanks so much for pointing them that way. We call it a listening tribe. It's free to join. It's free to stay. We just ask that you join the commentary, join the dialogue.

1:26.4

Fantastic. Well, how about we start off by giving you an opportunity to tell the listeners about yourself?

1:31.3

My name is Dan Oblinger.

1:32.3

I come to you, Kwame, from the middle part of America, the heart of America, as we say.

1:38.3

I am based in and around Wichita, Kansas.

1:40.3

My background is in police crisis negotiations, but I have made that transition to a business

1:45.8

negotiator as well, running a small business centered on speaking and conducting workshops

1:51.4

in listening and negotiations, but also running.

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