Dan Oblinger: How to Detect and Address Lies in Negotiations

Negotiate Anything

American Negotiation Institute

Education, Careers, Business

4.8 • 659 Ratings

🗓️ 19 February 2025

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this enlightening episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian engages with guest Dan Oblinger, a seasoned police crisis and business negotiator, about effectively dealing with deception in negotiations. Dan leverages his diverse background, including his experience in ancient philosophy and ethics, to provide a comprehensive approach for navigating deceptive situations. The conversation covers a robust three-pronged strategy focused on preparation, tactical listening, and confrontation of deception without compromising professionalism. Listeners will gain valuable insights into how understanding the nuances of human behavior and active listening can uncover and manage deception in negotiation contexts. What will be covered: Dan Oblinger's unique journey from police crisis negotiator to business negotiator, and his insights into human behavior. A detailed explanation of a three-pronged strategy to deal with deception, including preparation, tactical listening, and confronting deception. Techniques for building trust and respect in negotiations to minimize the likelihood of deception. Connect with Dan Connect with Dan on LinkedIn Learn More About Dan Dan's Books Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

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1:29.1	Anything. Subscribe and listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you love to listen. Let's make
1:35.3	every conversation a winning negotiation. Dan, thanks for joining us today.
1:42.4	Kwame, it's my pleasure, man. Thanks for the invite.
1:44.7	No, it's a pleasure to have you.
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1:52.8	So I am super excited to have you on and share some of your brilliance with the audience.
1:56.7	Oh, stop it.
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