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Revive Our Hearts

Control Girl, Ep. 2

Revive Our Hearts

Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth

Religion & Spirituality, Christianity

4.81.8K Ratings

🗓️ 22 April 2025

⏱️ 26 minutes

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Summary

Shannon Popkin spent many years trying to control her husband. Then she realized damage that controlling attitude was doing to her and to her husband.

Transcript

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0:00.0

As a wife, Shannon Popkin faces a lot of temptation to control her husband, but she's discovered

0:06.4

the joy of giving up that control to the Lord.

0:09.0

God has so blessed me every time that I let my husband lead, every time that I choose to

0:15.8

surrender. God shaped my heart and he gave me contentment.

0:23.3

And that's what he does when we surrender to him.

0:31.1

This is the Revive of Our Heart's podcast with Nancy DeMoss Walgamous, author of Adorned. For April 22nd, 2025, I'm Dana Gresh.

0:54.5

We're talking about a topic this week that I think maybe every one of us as women, men also, I don't want to leave them out, but I think as women, we wrestle with this in varying ways,

1:00.3

varying degrees, and it's this whole issue of wanting to control our circumstances, the people,

1:05.7

the situations around us, the outcome of our lives, to fix everything, to make it right.

1:12.9

Well, we're talking with our guest, Shannon Popkin, who has written a book that has been very helpful to me and I think to many other women as well. And it's called simply Control Girl. So maybe when you hear

1:19.3

that, you're thinking, well, that's somebody else I know. That's not me. I think as you start to read

1:24.1

and think about it, you may realize there's more inside of us of this

1:28.4

control girl than we realize. The subtitle of this book, Control Girl, Shannon, is Lessons,

1:33.7

which implies that it's something we have to learn, doesn't come naturally, lessons on surrendering.

1:40.1

That's a big word you use in this book. We're going to come back to that again.

1:43.7

Surrendering your burden of control.

1:46.9

Control really is a burden when we feel like it all falls on us, isn't it?

1:50.3

It is. Yeah.

1:51.2

And you've talked about some lessons on surrendering your burden of control based on what you've learned from seven women in the Bible.

1:58.3

Lots more we could learn about these women. These are just vignettes, but you talk

2:02.7

about seven of those women, and we're going to look at one of them today and another one tomorrow.

2:06.6

But I want to go back to a situation you described. I thought it was very poignant. I've heard

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