Hello everybody, welcome back to the Primal Potential podcast I am Elizabeth Benton.

This is our consistency 365 series.

If you have been listening to the last several episodes, you have heard me talk about something

that came up inside the consistency course around how the conversation is the relationship.

I want to follow up on that message with a reminder, this is actually a little tidbit

from marketing that applies brilliantly to our pursuit of consistency and that reminder

is what you say should be impossible to misunderstand.

What you say should be impossible to misunderstand.

I was just emailing with somebody who was telling me my inbox that their most common

excuse is I deserve it.

I deserve this drink.

I deserve this treat.

I deserve these shoes even though they're not in my budget.

That is not impossible to misunderstand because you misunderstand what you want most.

You misunderstand what it means to really take care of yourself which isn't the same

thing as indulging every desire that you have.

If you focus on communicating in a way that is impossible to misunderstand by default,

you're going to slow down, you're going to have more clear, more complete conversations

with yourself.

And one of the best parts is we can practice this with other people.

I get to practice with my husband, I get to practice with my kids, I get to practice with

my clients what I say should be impossible to misunderstand.

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