Connor Ratliff's Dead Eyes
Proxy with Yowei Shaw
Yowei Shaw
4.8 • 589 Ratings
🗓️ 6 August 2024
⏱️ 38 minutes
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Summary
An Emotions Beat episode about Dead Eyes, Tom Hanks, and why proxy conversations work.
Yowei is still trying to answer a basic question about her own show: why would talking to a stranger who wasn’t there help someone get unstuck?
So she calls Connor Ratliff, the actor and comedian behind Dead Eyes — a podcast about the time Tom Hanks fired him from Band of Brothers for allegedly having “dead eyes.”
Before Connor finally talked to Tom Hanks himself, he had dozens of proxy conversations: with actors who had their own rejection stories, showrunners who had fired actors, and people who could help him understand the tiny show business nightmare that has haunted him for years.
In this episode, Yowei and Connor investigate the difference between talking to a proxy and talking to the real person — and why sometimes the stranger who wasn’t there can still tell you exactly what you needed to hear.
From the episode:
— Connor Ratliff – host of the podcasts Dead Eyes, Tiny Dinos, and The George Lucas Show — on Instagram @connorratliff
New to Proxy? Try Bisexual Wife Guy for a classic Proxy case, or Psychodrama: The 2nd Oldest Therapy You've Never Heard Of, But Have Definitely Tried for another emotions beat episode about how conversations can create closure, even when they aren't with the "real" person.
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| 0:00.0 | Ever wondered why some trends are just suddenly everywhere? |
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| 0:40.7 | And since that announcement, we've gotten a bump in Patreon members, which is awesome. |
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| 1:18.1 | Okay, now to the show. |
| 1:27.2 | Welcome to Proxy. I'm Yo-WeiShaw. Proxy is a show about investigating niche emotional conundrums through conversations with strangers who have shared experience. And this is part two of my quest to explore my own niche emotional conundrum. How do I explain my show to people who don't get it? |
| 1:45.6 | Why would talking to a proxy who's not directly involved in your dilemma help answer your |
| 1:49.8 | questions, give you closure? |
| 1:52.7 | For the last year, I've been having trouble answering this question. |
| 1:56.3 | But there is one podcast I sometimes bring up as a model. |
| 1:59.9 | There are people who hear about the podcast and their first reaction is, |
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