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Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan

Confidence Classic: Redefine Success and Create Limitless Possibility with Laura Gassner Otting

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan

Heather Monahan

Entrepreneurship, Education, Business, Self-improvement

4.81.1K Ratings

🗓️ 30 July 2025

⏱️ 93 minutes

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Summary

Have you ever crushed a goal and still felt empty? In this episode, I sit down with best-selling author, keynote speaker, and former White House appointee Laura Gassner Otting to talk about why success isn’t always what it seems and what it means to break the “shoulds”. We dive into the difference between being impressive and being fulfilled, how chasing external validation leads to burnout, and why confidence doesn’t come from pleasing others. Laura shares how she rediscovered alignment in her life, what finally made her say yes to a TEDx talk, and how she’s helping high achievers rewrite their definition of success. Plus, I also reveal the strategy for my viral LinkedIn posts that reached 850,000+ people. Get ready to step into your limitless potential.  In This Episode, You Will Learn How a miscommunication taught me to choose clarity over panic. How to know if you’re living for someone else’s version of success. Why it’s time to stop proving and start LIVING. How to shift from obligation to opportunity. How letting go of old expectations creates space for something better. Why chasing impressive titles can leave you unfulfilled. My blueprint for creating viral LinkedIn posts. How Laura’s son helped her say yes to the TEDx opportunity. Why I’m passionate about ending workplace bullying. Resources + Links Learn more about Laura HERE! Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/monahan Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at NetSuite.com/MONAHAN. Want to do more and spend less like Uber, 8x8, and Databricks Mosaic? Take a free test drive of OCI at oracle.com/MONAHAN. Get 10% off your first Mitopure order at timeline.com/CONFIDENCE. Get 15% off your first order when you use code CONFIDENCE15 at checkout at jennikayne.com. Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553!  Visit heathermonahan.com Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/  Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com  If you haven't yet, get my first book Confidence Creator Follow Heather on Instagram & LinkedIn Laura on Instagram & LinkedIn

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0:00.0

People say follow your passion. I think follow your passion is the world's worst advice. In fact, I'd like to say on stage that it's the spoken word illegitimate sister of the live love laugh tattoo. And I just know that at some point someone's going to come up to me afterwards and like yell at me and show me their live love laugh tattoo. But it really is. I mean, it's like an Instagram meme. So like don't follow your passion. Do the thing where you would fail for sure, but still want to do it because that's investing in your passion. You're learning and you're growing and you're challenging yourself and you're on that edge of incompetence. So if you don't just follow your passion, but if you invest in it, you're going to be much more successful. Because this idea of, I'm going to follow my passion and find bliss tells us that the minute something goes wrong, the minute you fail, oh, that must not be your passion. Go find something else, right? But I know you've had people on your show like Jesse Itzler and Sarah Blakely and Gary Vaynerchuk and even Kendra Hall and think about them. Their stories are not great stories because they're only successful. Their stories are great stories because they are passionate about what they do because they failed over and over and over again. And that's how

0:58.2

they figured out how to get better. So they didn't just find their passion and follow their passion.

1:02.0

They invested in their passion. Come on this journey with me. Each week when you join me,

1:06.2

we are going to chase down our goals. Overcome adversity and set you up for a better tomorrow.

1:13.6

I'm ready for my close-up. Tell me, have you been enjoying these new bonus confidence

1:19.3

classics episodes we've been dropping on you every week? We've literally hundreds of episodes

1:23.5

for you to listen to. So these bonuses are a great way to help you find the ones you may

1:28.4

have already missed. I hope you love this one as much as I do. Hi and welcome back. I'm so excited

1:35.1

that you're back with me again today. Thank you for being here. There is so much going on.

1:41.1

I have absolutely had the craziest week. Not all good. I will tell you that.

1:47.3

And it wouldn't be me if I didn't share with you what's really going on. So I've got to tell

1:50.9

you an unbelievable story that happened this week and what I learned from it and what I want to

1:56.1

share with you about it, hopefully that you can take away as well. So Monday, I woke up to an email from one of my

2:04.4

advertisers on the podcast. He was trying to work out a long-term deal for 2020 on my show,

2:10.7

and he had gotten an email sent to him by the sales rep on my team that said, oh, we're not caring Heather's show in 2020.

2:20.2

So he flipped the email to me and said, Heather, what the heck is going on?

2:26.1

Now, when I saw this, don't forget, I'm on the East Coast primarily.

2:30.8

My headquarters and office is in L.A.

2:33.9

The team is in L.A. so there is a time change there.

2:37.0

I took a deep breath, and I had known and I had noticed that a number of shows had been let go recently.

2:44.7

They weren't being picked up for the next year.

2:47.1

I had noticed that.

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