Comparing Yourself? You Need This One Question!

Let It Be Easy with Susie Moore

Susie Moore

Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Philosophy, Life Coach, Motivational, Education, Personal Development, Life Coaching, Self-help, Mental Health

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🗓️ 18 October 2022

⏱️ 6 minutes

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0:00.0	Welcome to Let It Be Easy with Susie Moore.
0:10.0	I have such a good question for you today that I would really, oh my gosh, I would really
0:16.4	really encourage you to think about this throughout the day after listening to this episode.
0:22.4	It's a question that I've been thinking about a lot recently.
0:26.0	I've been speaking to a couple of different, even friends and clients about this because the way that we understand life, right, is often through comparison.
0:38.0	And look, this isn't always a negative thing.
0:40.0	We will observe someone's life and go, oh, I like that or I'm not so sure I'd want that in my life.
0:47.0	And so we need the contrast of daily experiences to give us clarity on what it is that we most want, right? We're inspired, we're often
0:55.9	pulled towards things that we love, experiences, people, places, and then we also see the opposite right we see careers we don't love
1:05.2	maybe places we don't love people that we don't necessarily want to spend our
1:08.8	lives with and so going through life right kind of just being out there, we are able to really sift through what it is that we want in our experience.
1:20.0	That's normal, it's appropriate, it's how we understand the world, right, through what it is that we see, what it is that we experience, and then we decide what it is that we want, right?
1:31.5	So clarity does come from showing up in the world and paying attention
1:36.1	observing other people. Now, this is where this can get a little bit tricky. We also can measure the success of our life
1:46.7	based on other people. This is typically what we do, right? We don't wake up and go, wow, look at my life exactly as it is.
1:54.6	Sometimes we do, right? We go through our gratitude exercises, we look at what's
1:58.6	working, we count our blessings, it's not to discount that. But often we'll say, ah, but she's farther ahead.
2:05.0	Well that person's younger than me and they already figured this out, or that person is
2:09.5	where I want to be and I'm not nearly near where he or she is.
2:15.0	I want to ask you this question truly let it in I'm going to ask it a couple of times
2:19.6	because I want you to really think about it.
2:27.4	How much would you love your life
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