Welcome to Let It Be Easy with Susie Moore.

Do you ever wonder why someone did not text you back?

Oh my gosh, I am so guilty of this

and on both sides, I am someone who often doesn't take back will need a reminder or will need even a

a DM or an email or some type of ping to even be reminded of the back and forth or the thing that you need

from me or the question that you ask or the invitation that you sent. Not hearing

back from somebody is extremely

and I would guess that probably you're also someone

who doesn't get back to everybody in this perfect prompt way. And yet, we make it mean something don't we a lot of the

time when somebody doesn't text us back maybe we're reaching out wanting to meet or we're reaching out with a question or

reaching out with just a loving message and it's simply met with silence.

Right? This happens all the time, every day, all over the world, non-stop. And I'm absolutely guilty of

this. I probably have 20 at least unreturned text messages, people checking in, asking what's up. I was just

recently in New York and a lot of my New York friends I didn't have time to see

and they were just reaching out asking how it was. And I haven't

texted a lot of them back. So why is that? It's because I don't like them.

It's because I don't like them and I want to make them suffer. That's why.

You can tell I'm joking right now. Obviously I hope.

And look it's funny and it's kind of not funny right because we often make something mean something when it doesn't right andreturned text, we can make that mean, I'm not important to this person,

they don't care about me, I'm easily overlooked, I'm not important, this person has no regard for me.

It's very, very easy to attach a meaning to something that's so innocent, truly so innocent.

I was looking at my phone a couple of days ago and a friend of mine has reached

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