Come Together | Dr Emily Nagoski #675
Sexy Marriage Radio
Dr Corey and Pam Allan
4.8 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 8 May 2024
⏱️ 47 minutes
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Summary
In this conversation, Emily Nagoski joins me as we discuss the creation of her new book on long-term relationships and lasting connections.
We explore the concept of normal sex and the importance of pleasure, authenticity, connection, and vulnerability in maintaining a strong sexual connection. We also dive into the impact of societal myths and expectations on sexual relationships and the need for open and honest communication about desires and boundaries.
In our conversation, we discuss the importance of emotional connection and collaboration in a marriage. Emily shares her personal experiences and how she learned to rely on her partner for support. She also explains the concept of the emotional floor plan and how different emotional states can affect sexual intimacy.
The conversation highlights the need for intentional effort and communication in building a strong sexual connection.
Learn more about Dr Emily here - https://www.emilynagoski.com/
Takeaways
Long-term sexual connections are built on pleasure, authenticity, connection, and vulnerability.
Normal sex is defined as an experience where everyone involved is glad to be there, free to leave with no unwanted consequences, and turns towards what's happening with kindness, compassion, and curiosity.
Societal myths and expectations about sex can create pressure and feelings of inadequacy in relationships.
Open and honest communication about desires and boundaries is crucial for maintaining a strong sexual connection.
Sexual experiences can vary greatly among individuals and change over time, and that is normal. Building a strong sexual connection requires emotional connection and collaboration in a marriage.
Learning to rely on your partner for support is transformative and allows for a deeper level of intimacy.
Understanding the emotional floor plan can help navigate different emotional states and their impact on sexual intimacy.
Accepting help and support from your partner is challenging but necessary for a healthy relationship.
Adventurous sex is not just about trying new things, but also about open communication and expressing your needs and desires.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the show. |
| 0:03.0 | I'm Dr. Coriol and alongside my wife Pam. |
| 0:06.0 | It's good to be here. |
| 0:07.0 | Having a great conversations today again, like we do and try every week, |
| 0:12.0 | not only just on the air, but in our relationship. |
| 0:16.3 | That's the hope? It's always the hope. We hope that what we talk about here on the air and the |
| 0:20.8 | guests to join us translate into conversations for all those in the nation |
| 0:25.4 | that are listening. |
| 0:27.0 | And last week when we did the episode on initiation mistakes that we all make, all married |
| 0:32.1 | people can make, there was a comment that came in on the |
| 0:34.3 | platform which you can find at my dot sMR. fm. But somebody, one of the guys made a comment that said some |
| 0:41.4 | men get confused when they upgrade from |
| 0:43.6 | girlfriend 4.2 to wife 1.0. They get confused at all the changes it will |
| 0:49.5 | bring. Apparently they didn't realize that girlfriend 4.0 or 4.2 is an app while Wife 1.0 is an |
| 0:57.1 | operating system. That is perfect. I.ukeery there. Yes yesterday. But there's some realness to that. |
| 1:09.0 | There absolutely is. I kind of like that correlation. |
| 1:12.0 | As things change, we evolve and we need to continue to adjust as we evolve, |
| 1:17.0 | not only with the relationships we have with ourselves, |
| 1:19.0 | but the relationships we have with each other for sure. |
| 1:21.0 | And that's what we try to do at Sexi Marriage Radio is tackle |
| 1:25.1 | some of the aspects of life and marriage and love and sex because sometimes they're |
| 1:30.1 | just flat out difficult and sometimes they're great and there's anywhere everywhere |
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