I'm Claire Fallon and I'm Emma Gray and this is Love to See It, an obsessively detailed

recap podcast about reality dating shows like The Bachelor and other pop culture that makes us laugh, cry, and curse the patriarchy.

We can't live with these shows and we can't live without them but we can break down every juicy moment and unpack all the weird messages these shows send us about love, sex, and dating.

I'm not your role, stop your role, love and fire. Can you keep up? I like love.

Welcome to Love to See It, a show about four farmers who want to take a wife and all of the women who are competing not to end up as the proverbial cheese standing alone.

In this very special channel surfing bonus episode, we are diving into the agriculture core dating show Farmer wants a wife, a Fox reality program about love, farm style because nothing says romance like cleaning literal shit out of horse stalls.

Hey, farmers need love too, right? Like this is their chance.

They really do. I will say these are four leads that I actually believe are searching for love. I don't know how to find it.

This is my chance to get married. I've been on the farmers only dating app. I've dated every woman within a 60 mile radius. I'm still working.

I simply have to widen the pool and I'm a system assistant. It's crazy to think of having the exact opposite problem of what we tend to have as women dating in New York, which is the men don't have enough options.

And they need to have them like shipped in by a sugarland singer Jennifer nettles.

Here it's more like the men have so many women that they literally like don't know what to do with themselves and they just short out.

But this is a show about single male farmers searching for a wife.

They kind of lean in the marketing on it like city gals out of their element on the farm, but it's really just like a mix of women of different backgrounds who are interested in dating farmers.

Will they be able to hack it on the farm will they find love with our for upstanding.

Agricultureists of America and I have a really hard time remembering the name of this show because my son has actually been obsessed with the song.

The farmer takes a wife takes a while in the Dell farmer in the Dell again we used to we used to sing that song and like do a little activity along with it in like gym class and elementary school.

Is that just a song like every American child.

It's a classic like nursery rhyme song, but it's very old fashioned.

Listening to your little like 2019 babies singing about how the farmer takes a wife and the wife takes a child and the child takes a nurse and you're like.

What kind of messaging is this reinforcing in my home.

But yeah, this is not such an optimistic title. The farmer wants a wife will he get one that's what we're all here to find out will he take away at the end.

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