Carl & Laura Lentz Open Up To Their Daughters (Vulnerable Conversation)

Lights On with Carl Lentz

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Society & Culture, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.6 • 701 Ratings

🗓️ 9 July 2024

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Summary

In this raw and revealing episode, Carl and Laura Lentz, joined by their daughters Charlie and Ava, have a heartfelt conversation about healing and family resilience. Carl opens up about his journey to true healing, and the Lentz family discusses the struggles and pain they faced behind the scenes during their scandal. In an honest and surprising moment, Charlie and Ava ask their parents about their sex life after healing, leading to an insightful and open dialogue. This episode dives deep into the complexities of family, love, and recovery, offering a unique perspective on overcoming adversity.

0:00 - Introduction and Context 1:51 - The Lentz's Journey as a Family: The Girls' Perspective 4:14 - Getting to a Place of Forgiveness 8:22 - The Biggest Party in Florida 10:40 - Communicating After the Trauma, How Charlie Found Out 16:40 - Download the BSIDE App 17:26 - Say Goodbye 20:13 - Laura and Carl: Figuring out the Best Way for the Kids 23:37 - The Importance of Being Honest 26:20 - How Ava Found Out 30:13 - What Ava And Charlie Found Out About Laura 31:54 - Starting Over: When to Trust Again 34:04 - Intimacy and Trauma 38:42 - What Ava And Charlie Found Out About Laura 41:53 - Powerful Honesty, and Fighting Frustration 45:05 - What Ava Thinks of Marriage Now 47:02 - We Know too Much 49:36 - What Charlie Thinks of Marriage Now 51:40 - Vulnerability, Accountability and Honesty

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0:00.0	I literally remember asking, I was like, Dad, did you have sex with her?
0:02.5	I've talked about this a number of times.
0:04.6	It still hits me dead in my chest.
0:06.5	Sex is important in this family.
0:09.0	It's valued.
0:10.0	Like, how long did it take, like, for you to feel comfortable to have sex again?
0:14.8	I thought we would never have sex again, honestly.
0:17.4	And I was cool with that. I was like, I've lost the right.
0:19.5	So I was surprised that she ever wanted to be intimate ever again. She asked me to hug her and be close to her and she shakes violently. She doesn't even know she's shaking.
0:29.6	Like the fact that y'all are still together is like beyond me. Like I don't know how that happened. Has your view of marriage changed for the better or for the worst watching me and your mom go through such a deep tribe?
0:48.4	What do you think of marriage now? Okay, so context on this episode you're about to hear. I don't know if it can get better for me,
1:04.4	because I've got my kids on here and Laura and I ask them some really real questions,
1:13.3	and they ask us some questions, which I didn't tell them to do but they do so you can expect to hear on this on this episode what infidelity does to
1:19.4	your kids what you can do to recover how to connect with them better and basically just stuff
1:25.5	you might not know about young people. So it's really, really,
1:28.2	really good. And I hope it's a blessing to you. Check it out. Ava Lentz, Charlie Lentz,
1:33.0	Laura Lentz, and me. Lights on. We're here. We made it.
1:53.7	And with this special guest couch here, it's going to be tough to ever have a pod that's going to be as cool as this
2:01.0	Charlie Lentz, Ava Lentz, Biggie, Laura Lentz, Ralfi. I mean, we got a full house.
2:07.6	It's a full house today. And Roman may or may not be here. We are negotiating with his
2:13.2	reps as far as cost and price. And so hopefully he'll be able to join us. So I love you
2:19.9	both. This is, it's big of you to do this. It's really helpful for people. How would you describe
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