Career Quandaries & Surrogate Girlfriends
Crowned & Cancelled
Shallon Lester
4.7 • 1.1K Ratings
🗓️ 11 June 2020
⏱️ 19 minutes
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Summary
Is it normal for an FWB situation to include dates and endless texts? Is a guy one month post divorce fit to date? Is mom going to lose her mind when I tell her I’m switching careers? I’ll unravel these riddles and more!
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Girl on Top ShalinXO podcast. |
| 0:09.0 | I'm your host Shalin Lester and you might know me from my YouTube channel, |
| 0:13.0 | where I analyze celebrity relationships and scandals for the lessons we can take into our own lives. |
| 0:18.0 | But here on the podcast, I answer the best questions you submitted over the |
| 0:21.6 | past week. Got a love quandary? Head to my website, shalinlester.com, to get connected, and also shop |
| 0:27.6 | my merch and take some fun quizzes. Be sure to rate and review this podcast if you like it, and |
| 0:32.1 | follow me on Instagram at ShalynXO, and find me on YouTube for four new videos a week. |
| 0:39.0 | Welcome back, Shalinders. All right, let's chill out. |
| 0:44.1 | Let's take some deep breaths. Let's relax our shoulders. Work that tension out of the jaw. |
| 0:49.7 | Let our eyes get nice and heavy. Lay down someplace comfy, someplace soft, on a beanbag chair, |
| 0:54.6 | a big stomach of a large seal or other land mammal, and really just get ready to receive |
| 1:01.1 | the message. Just breathe in through our nose and out through our mouth. One more time, |
| 1:07.7 | holding it a little longer. In through our nose. |
| 1:14.2 | And out through our mouth. |
| 1:17.7 | So this week, the theme is going to be, it's my life. |
| 1:21.2 | And that's going to come into play when we're talking with some people about their parents, |
| 1:25.2 | talking with some girls about fuckboys who are kind of trying to pull them into their lives, |
| 1:27.4 | and just talking about careers as well. |
| 1:32.7 | We always have to remember that like we are on our own individual path and other people might think they know the best path for us and they might mean well. But we always have to remember |
| 1:37.5 | to come back to that authenticity and that really does take time to figure out what do we want? |
| 1:42.0 | What do we want out of a dating situation? What do we want out of a job? What do we want out of a dynamic with our parents? what do we want? What do we want out of a dating situation? What do we want out of a job? |
| 1:45.5 | What do we want out of a dynamic with our parents? What do we want out of life? These are the big questions and you're probably not going to answer it in the course of a podcast, but just always keep that in the foreground. So let's get into it. This question comes from Sophia. She said, I went on a few dates with this guy a few years ago. |
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