Welcome to Love and Abuse, the show about navigating the difficult relationship.

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Always seek a professional for your mental health and well-being, and always pick your battles wisely.

I'm your host, Paul Koliani.

Welcome to Love and abuse.

I am going to dive right into the first topic.

I'm hoping to address two topics today.

Let me switch screens here.

This person asked me,

I got through your entire mean workbook.

My score was 144, and that's out of 200.

So if you're familiar with the workbook, it is about the level of control, manipulation, and abuse in your relationship.

And it reveals a lot that you may not even realize that is abusive.

So that's the mean workbook that I talk about at the end of every episode.

She said,

My husband came clean to me a couple of years ago about posting pictures of me, nude pictures,

on a website with stories about me.

He started a nasty dating profile of me to see what interest I would get.

He says he feels terrible about doing these things to me and I'm wondering if in your opinion

someone who does something like this could really change or if these are signs of antisocial personality disorder.

I really appreciate your thoughts. Thank you. Wow. That's, that's sometimes there are things that

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