Calling Out Purpose in Your Children
Famous at Home
Josh + Christi Straub
4.8 • 667 Ratings
🗓️ 15 April 2026
⏱️ 37 minutes
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Summary
What’s the first question we ask our kids in kindergarten? “What do you want to BE when you grow up?” We do our children a disservice by asking this question because the very nature of the phrase implies that what you DO is who you are.
What about for ourselves as adults? What does it means to live in “fullness of life,” even when our circumstances might not match our heart’s desire? Perhaps Teresa of Avila held a clue to this mystery when she said, “God is among the pots and the pans.”
In this episode, Josh and Christi define what we mean by the word “purpose” and also identify other flaws of our modern cultural understanding of purpose and how it influences how we shepherd the hearts of our kids. One question to consider, “Is our understanding of purpose, especially when raising our children, filtered through a biblical lens?” In other words, who is God calling our children to “become?”
Josh and Christi also discuss Christi’s own “mid-life” crisis, the many layers of purpose, what the Bible tells us about meaning, and how we squelch our children’s desire for purpose even in early childhood.
Time Stamps:
0:00 Introduction
1:40 Welcome to our own mid-life crisis
4:40 Tender & Fierce fall cohort announcement!
5:40 Christi’s mid-life crisis and rethinking what “purpose” really is
13:00 The layers of purpose and helping our children find theirs
20:00 Ecclesiastes and the discovery of meaning
23:20 Finding “fullness of life” no matter your life circumstances or current occupation / role
29:07 What keeps us from living in purpose
33:00 What multiplication and expansion of our purpose actually means
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | You know, I noticed it yesterday. Driving home, we had Micah with us, and it was just like country roads. |
| 0:05.1 | And Micah's like, we were talking about all kinds of stuff, Josh and I, and he's in the back. And he's like, guys, what can I do? This is like question these days. He's like, what can I do? He's like looking for something. He's bored. And you were like, tell me about your day. and you were like asking these really specific questions. |
| 0:20.1 | And then he goes, yeah, I don't mean that. |
| 0:23.7 | He was looking for purpose. Yeah. He was looking for |
| 0:27.3 | something because we were both contributing so many things. Like we were solving things and like |
| 0:32.3 | figuring things out. It's like, what can I do? He means how can I help? |
| 0:38.0 | Like, how can I have a purpose? |
| 0:41.0 | And I heard it. |
| 0:43.0 | Yes. |
| 0:44.0 | Yeah, and I didn't, |
| 0:44.7 | because I started asking a specific question |
| 0:45.9 | about thinking like he was bored. |
| 0:47.8 | Right. |
| 0:49.2 | He wanted purpose. |
| 0:50.9 | He wanted to be part of it. |
| 0:52.9 | It's like, what can I do? |
| 0:55.8 | And I think we realized so much, we almost like patronize our kids by like, tell me about you. He just needed |
| 1:01.7 | purpose. Yeah. If it's true at five, it's true at 55. I won't lose hope in the night when the fire is growing down. |
| 1:15.2 | I'll just let go and I'll try help me walk this road and find my way back home. |
| 1:35.0 | Find my way back home. |
| 1:40.5 | Welcome, Josh. |
| 1:41.5 | Hi, Christy. |
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