Calling a Narcissist Out
Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs
Lisa A. Romano
4.8 • 806 Ratings
🗓️ 17 February 2023
⏱️ 11 minutes
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Summary
You might be tempted to call out a narcissist and take note of their bad behavior. If your loved one is involved with a narcissist, it might be incredibly difficult not to confront the narcissist they love. The problem is, narcissists, live in a fantasy version of reality and those who love them, are drawn into their fantasies. Confronting a loved one, or the narcissist they love may only make things worse. Listen in as Lisa A. Romano Codependency and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach explains why you can't help a loved one until they are ready to make the break.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Breakdown to Breakthrough podcast. |
| 0:07.0 | My name is Lisa A. Romano. I am a life coach, best-selling author, YouTube vlogger, |
| 0:12.0 | meditation teacher, an expert in the field of codependency and narcissistic abuse. |
| 0:17.0 | I am a believer in the power of an organized mind. |
| 0:21.6 | My aim is to help people learn what it means to live above the veil of consciousness |
| 0:25.9 | rather than living a reactive life. |
| 0:29.3 | May your heart feel blessed, your mind feel expanded, and your spirit find hope |
| 0:33.8 | as you spend time with me here at the Breakdown to Breakthrough podcast. |
| 0:39.5 | If you've ever dealt with a narcissist, loved a narcissist, and were married to a narcissist |
| 0:44.4 | or raised with a narcissist, one of the things that you would have consistently experienced was |
| 0:50.3 | this absolute rejection of your experience. So a narcissist must reject your reality because they live in a fantasy world inside their |
| 1:00.0 | own reality. |
| 1:01.5 | They believe they are far better people than they actually are. |
| 1:05.3 | And when you offer them a conflicting experience of their internal experience, they reject it because they have |
| 1:13.8 | let they lack empathy. And so when you try to confront a narcissist, you're going to |
| 1:19.4 | be butt up against this reflex within them to reject your experience, to reject your |
| 1:25.5 | reality. Dealing with confirmation bias with a narcissist. |
| 1:30.2 | So a narcissist believes that they're right. |
| 1:33.0 | They are biased to this opinion. |
| 1:35.1 | And so what happens with confirmation bias? |
| 1:37.7 | When I'm experiencing confirmation bias, I have a belief and my mind works to make that |
| 1:43.8 | belief true. And so any conflicting data, I ignore it. |
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