#brunchtalk: What To Do When Someone Won't Stop Talking On a Date?

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 3 March 2024

⏱️ 20 minutes

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Summary

Ever been on a date when your date won't stop talking? We're back with a new season of brunch talks as we go into how to know if it's first date jitters or narcissistic tendencies. We're discussing ways to insert yourself / redirect the conversation, how to do your own talking-too-much gut check, and when to give the date another try versus cut bait. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected] Join our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. This episode is sponsored by: Hinge: Download Hinge and try voice prompts today: https://hinge.co/ Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/ Flure Dating App: Try the app Made for Pleasure: https://flure.com Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	Hi I'm Ewey Schue and I'm Julie Kraftchik. We're active daters turn dating sociologists.
0:05.6	Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.
0:09.1	Welcome to the dateable podcast. You all must be so hungry because you've gone without brunch talk for so long.
0:20.5	We are starving as well.
0:22.0	We're finally back to feed you with a brand new season of
0:25.2	brunch talk where we answer your burning dating questions. We gave you little
0:29.3	snacks, tidbits of the best of brunch talk to keep you there but I agree we are hungry for some new questions and we were going through all the reviews and there are so many so we're excited that we have so much content to dive right into.
0:43.8	I love that you're like, we gave you guys snacks.
0:46.4	We did.
0:47.4	We gave you stuff to...
0:48.8	Teasers.
0:49.8	To snack on.
0:50.8	It's like the definition of a toxic relationship. It's like, I'm going to starve you, but look, I gave you some breadcrumbs. Oh, we're not toxic. No, just kidding. We're not toxic. No, we're very generous with our brunch talk. We have so much to dive into which is why we're going to dive into this question already. The question is, how do you tell your date that they're talking too much?
1:13.3	I love this one.
1:14.2	And then for boring context, this came in from a review,
1:17.8	so thank you.
1:18.8	It said, I'm struggling with what appears
1:21.7	to be a common theme of over talking and sometimes
1:24.8	trauma dumping and limited to no curiosity in me and I leave the date exhausted.
1:31.6	I'm curious how you would advise me and others on this topic.
1:35.6	Yeah, so I like to look at this from a few different perspectives. I know that some
1:42.0	people get nervous on dates and that manifests into talking a lot because you
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