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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

S18E2: F The Fairy Tale w/ Damona Hoffman

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5877 Ratings

🗓️ 6 March 2024

⏱️ 65 minutes

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Summary

Does dating feel like you’re chasing a “happily ever after” that always seems out of reach? We're chatting with dating coach Damona Hoffman about how to break free from the dating myths that keep you stuck on an outdated vision of a relationship that probably isn't even what you want anyways! We discuss why soulmates don't exist, the four pillars of strong relationships, and how you can rewrite the ending to your own love story. Follow Damona @damonahoffman, listen to Dates & Mates, and get her book 'F the Fairy Tale' wherever books are sold. Join our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. Related Episodes: Why You're Choosing The Wrong Partners w/ Psychotherapist Marc Sholes Deeper Dating w/ Ken Page This episode is sponsored by: Hinge: Download Hinge and try voice prompts today: https://hinge.co/ Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/ VIIA: Get 15% off + one free sample of their sleepy Dreams gummies. (21+) at https://viiahemp.com/ using the code DATEABLE Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0

Hi I'm Yui Shue and I'm Julie Kraftchik. We're active daters turn dating sociologist.

0:05.6

Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.

0:09.1

Welcome to the dateable podcast. datable.

0:18.6

datable's welcome back to season 18 here. We're just getting started and already we're getting such great feedback on this new season.

0:25.2

We're coming in hot because 18 is a such a big year in anybody's life. When you turn 18, you're like officially an adult, you can vote,

0:36.7

you can do all these things. So we feel like as a podcast, we've also matured to earn the right of an 18 year old.

0:43.2

Yeah, and we had to have the last 17 seasons

0:46.6

to get us to where we are today.

0:49.2

And it's like when you turn 18, you need the learnings and the experiences and the trials and

0:55.1

tribulations and all the stuff that you learned from to get you to that next

0:59.7

stage of life. Not to get too deep about this 18 thing, but if you think about the course of life, sometimes when you're

1:07.4

younger you're like, I just want to skip ahead.

1:09.8

I want to know everything already or I don't want to make the same mistakes as my

1:14.4

parents or my predecessors but if you really think about the course of like your

1:19.1

childhood you have to make all those mistakes yeah and go through all of those experiences to live the life that you want later in life that you want later in life.

1:29.1

So even in the beginning, you know, the last 17 seasons of Datable we've learned a lot and we put them all

1:36.3

into practice so this season we are putting them into practice but asking bigger questions.

1:43.6

Let's go big and let's go deep.

1:45.9

Yeah, this is one of the things that we talked about at our Josh retreat, of just like,

1:50.4

what makes dateable different?

1:51.8

What is it that we're trying to do here

1:54.4

ultimately and it is to debunk a lot of the miss which is perfectly in line with

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