S18E1: The Reason You Don't Need To Be Good At Dating

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 28 February 2024

⏱️ 48 minutes

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We're back with Season 18 here to answer an existential question we've had after doing this podcast now for 8 years: do you need to be good at dating? When we first started the pod, the answer was an obvious yes....until we dug in further. Join us as we discuss why dating culture isn't helping us get into relationships, how to start dating differently, and ways you can start forming more connections in your dating life TODAY! Join our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. Related Episodes: Breaking up with Bad Dating Habits - Yue interviews Julie Breaking up with Bad Dating Habits - Julie interviews Yue Saving Modern Dating w/ Ilana Dunn This episode is sponsored by: Hinge: Download Hinge and try voice prompts today: https://hinge.co/ Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/ Flure Dating App: Try the app Made for Pleasure: https://flure.com Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	Hi I'm Ewey Schue and I'm Julie Kraftchik.
0:03.0	We're active daters turn dating sociologists.
0:05.6	Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.
0:09.1	Welcome to the dateable podcast. Yeah, Congratulations to all of us for being back for season 18.
0:20.0	We know, dateable podcast.
0:21.0	Yeah, we want to make this very inclusive. You are also part of this season launch.
0:25.8	We are well into the double digits about to hit 20 seasons. Wow that's so nuts.
0:32.0	18 seasons people always ask this question,
0:34.8	have you been doing data before 18 years?
0:37.4	No, we have about two seasons per year,
0:40.5	so it's been about nine years, which is true. Nine years is still a long time. You know, I feel like what is it like your 10,000 hours to become an expert? We're long past that 10,000 hours. Not to say that we're not
0:55.3	continuously learning because we are. I think you're never a full expert.
0:59.7	Everything helps, but we've put in a lot of hours, that's for sure.
1:03.6	I mean, to think when we've started this, we were babies.
1:07.0	Clueless.
1:08.0	Clueless.
1:08.6	Clueless.
1:09.6	Yeah, I mean, I was almost mid-30s, just just thinking oh my gosh we got to figure out dating
1:16.7	Little did we know that nine years later nobody has dating figured out. I mean that's crazy to think I know like obviously we've been doing this for
1:24.4	nine years but I'm not sure if it's hit me like that it was almost a decade ago when we started so that
1:30.1	means we were 10 years younger that we are today and yeah I was like what like 31-32 like yeah like it was pretty young
1:38.1	you're you were a baby we met 10 years ago yeah just about 10 years ago, 9 years ago.
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