S16E13: How Your Childhood Wounds Impact Your Love Life w/Vienna Pharaon

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 10 May 2023

⏱️ 77 minutes

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Summary

So is the reason our love lives are so f#*ked because of our...childhood? While we aren't blaming our parents, we are unpacking our childhood wounds with marriage and family therapist Vienna Pharaon. We discuss the five core wounds that many of us experienced, how these wounds may play into your experiences dating and with relationships, and ways you can heal your past so it doesn't define your future. Follow Vienna @mindfulmft and check out her book 'The Origins of You: How Breaking Family Patterns Can Liberate the Way We Live and Love" wherever books are sold. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. This episode is sponsored by: HoneyLove: Treat yourself to the best shapewear on the market and save 20% Off at honeylove.com with the code DATEABLE Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order. Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	Hi I'm Yui Shue and I'm Julie Kraftchik.
0:03.0	We're active daters turn dating sociologists.
0:05.6	Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.
0:09.1	Welcome to the dateable podcast. datable. going to you right now take a deep breath.
0:22.5	Get comfortable.
0:23.4	We're getting into it.
0:25.3	Change into your sweats.
0:27.4	Somebody with the elastic waist pants.
0:29.5	You're going to have a bath.
0:31.4	Take a candle. a cowl soup.
0:34.0	Get some pillows.
0:36.1	Something that's, yeah, something that you can cuddle with.
0:38.8	If you have a pet, just grab them and just
0:41.2	start cuddling at them now. Oh shit I didn't even think about that.
0:45.5	People are like what is happening? This is a heavier topic but it is time well
0:51.8	spent we guarantee you. you. It's a lot to think about. We're talking about childhood
0:57.3	wounds. Yes, we're going there. Childhood wounds. Let's go. What's there? Let's dig it up. Let's let, you know, just unbury it up, but we guarantee you if you do the work and listen to this episode, it will change everything as soon as you're done with this episode.
1:15.0	And what better person to be with us for this episode?
1:19.0	I feel like she's the queen of unppacking Your Childhood.
1:23.0	Vienna Farin, we had her on the podcast with her husband, Connor Beeden, a few seasons back.
1:29.6	How to have a healthy relationship was the topic we did with them.
1:33.2	And we talked about conflicts.
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