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The Angry Therapist Podcast

Breakup Season

The Angry Therapist Podcast

John Kim

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.61.1K Ratings

🗓️ 18 June 2019

⏱️ 17 minutes

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Summary

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler.


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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hi, my name is John Kim, and I'm a therapist who went through his own

0:07.6

rebirth. I share my feelings and revelations. I believe in casual or

0:11.9

clinical and with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose

0:17.3

because self-help doesn't have to be so complicated.

0:27.8

I don't know what's going on but I've been getting a wave of clients all going through breakups and expired relationships well I call them expired relationships, you guys call them breakups, or maybe

0:35.8

you guys are now calling them expired relationships because you realize that that mindset

0:41.2

is going to help you. Now I know that calling a relationship expired is a little

0:48.8

bit minimizing and that's not why I say expired relationships.

0:55.0

I say expired relationships because you are then,

1:01.0

there's acceptance there, right? Like knowing or both choosing to believe that it wasn't meant to go a day further or less,

1:12.0

encourages you to accept more because when you say breakup it's like it sounds

1:18.1

traumatic it sounds like you know it sounds like oh something just went like the bottom fell out and I know that

1:24.6

maybe how it feels but expired relationship is always I've always felt that

1:31.2

those words feel more like closure than going through a breakup.

1:38.6

Going through a breakup sounds like you are just entering a war or something bad happen, you know, you are recovering from something.

1:46.4

And I don't think that's a good way or a healthy way to look at your expired relationship. Anyway, lots of people going through this, a lot of my clients

1:58.6

going through this, and I just, I have some words about it. I mean I've got a lot of words, but I want to give you some simple things.

2:06.0

So the way that I look at things is usually there's things that are on the surface, right?

2:11.0

Logic, what to do, next steps, all of that, and then what's underneath and also

2:17.0

mindset. So when I say what's underneath is like what's happening underneath, What is the subconscious? What are the

2:25.2

what are the records that you're playing? What are the messages you are

2:30.3

cementing? You know all of that stuff. What are patterns, what are, you know, what's coming up for you?

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