Breaking up for newbies - Enabling your own terrible relationship - Dating the emotional abuser

The Overwhelmed Brain

Paul Colaianni: Emotional Abuse and Relationship Expert

Education, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement

4.5 • 2K Ratings

🗓️ 4 February 2018

⏱️ 77 minutes

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Summary

1. Without a history of breakups, your first major one can seem devastating and life ending. In this segment, I help the newbie get through all the symptoms of the first major heartbreak. 2. When you think your relationship is horrible and you find yourself taking up all the slack for your deadbeat other half, are you creating your own misery? 3. One of my clients writes to me and tells me the person she is going to marry is already telling her what to do with her money. It makes her feel uncomfortable and manipulated. She's right. So I tell her what she needs to do.

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0:00.0	You are listening to the overwhelmed brain.
0:02.5	Today's episode is brought to you by get out of the mess.com.
0:06.3	Are you annoyed by affirmations?
0:08.5	Are you tired of that same old rehashed personal growth advice that all seems to boil down to,
0:15.0	Think positively and all your problems will go away.
0:19.0	If affirmations feel like lies and positive thinking feels like denial, then I want you to get ready.
0:25.8	The overwhelmed brain is here to help you create the life you want now. Now. Hello and welcome to the overwhelmed brain. I am your host personal
0:46.3	empowerment coach Paul Kolyani. This is the show that helps you increase
0:50.5	your emotional intelligence, strengthen your self-worth and self-esteem
0:54.6	and empower you so that you can make decisions that are right for you.
0:58.8	Everything I talk about on this show is my personal opinion and is meant for informational and educational purposes only.
1:05.0	Always consult a medical or psychological professional before making any changes that could affect
1:08.9	your physical or mental health.
1:11.4	And welcome to this show, like I said, first thing I want to talk about today
1:14.8	is something that came up in the Overwhelmed Brain Empowerment Group on Facebook.
1:20.1	If you're not a member, you can go to Facebook and look that up, the Overwhelmed Brain Empowerment Group.
1:25.8	And it came up in the form of a question that one of the members had regarding breaking up and getting into another relationship and the fears involved
1:36.5	after having broken up, having a relationship and having that, I guess, fail, you could look at it that way or
1:45.4	succeed because it's better for a relationship that's not going to last to fail
1:51.0	faster or end faster so that you don't get stuck with someone that maybe isn't
1:58.9	that interested, isn't in love with you, doesn't want to hang out with you, I don't know, just not sharing
2:06.8	your interests.
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