Breaking the patterns of bad behavior that diminish your worth and well-being

Love and Abuse

Paul Colaianni

Mental Health, Lies, Emotional, Health & Fitness, Psychological, Society & Culture, Deception, Manipulation, Narcissism, Verbal, Abuse, Relationships

4.6 • 816 Ratings

🗓️ 1 July 2020

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

Every now and then someone you care about makes a mistake and says or does something to make you feel bad. These one-offs are forgivable. They could be having a bad day or perhaps they just had a lot of pent up energy they needed to release and you were just an unlucky target. But what about when bad behaviors are repeated over and over again? You could be looking at an emotionally abusive relationship and it might be time to take a stand for your own worth and well-being.

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0:00.0	Welcome to Love and Abuse, the show about helping you identify poisonous communication and toxic behavior.
0:07.4	You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness.
0:10.9	That's why it's important that you learn to pinpoint manipulative and controlling behavior so that you keep your power and your sanity.
0:18.6	I'm your host, Paul Koliani.
0:36.4	Thank you. power and your sanity. I'm your host, Paul Koliani. Welcome to another episode of love and abuse. If this is your first time listening,
0:38.0	welcome to love and abuse. And this is your first time listening, welcome to love and abuse.
0:46.5	And this is the show where I tell you all about controlling behavior, manipulative behavior,
0:52.8	emotionally abusive behavior, and other terms that I don't use like psychological abuse,
1:11.8	verbal abuse, domestic violence is considered, or at least emotional abuse is considered domestic violence, all these terms that come into play when you're in any type of dynamic where there are at least two people and one of them or more, you might have more people in a family or a group of people that are being disrespectful hurtful and causing you
1:19.9	to feel bad after your interactions and so this is the show that I try to cover a lot
1:27.1	of it.
1:28.2	Mainly I talk about emotional abuse and control and manipulation because those are the
1:33.7	main things that a lot of people deal with in relationships.
1:37.9	And it doesn't have to be a romantic relationship.
1:39.5	It can be any type of relationship that you're in.
1:42.6	Family is a good example.
1:44.9	You might have family members that are just hurtful to you or they're doing something
1:50.0	covert to you.
1:52.6	They're being covertly manipulative or covertly deceptive or they know their words hurt
2:00.0	and they'll say them.
2:02.2	It's like backhanded or underhanded comments or passive aggressive comments.
2:08.2	And we all do this to a certain extent at one time or another.
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