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The Art of Charm

Breaking The Ice (Small Talk Toolbox)

The Art of Charm

http://www.TheArtOfCharm.com

Business, Health & Fitness, Education

4.711K Ratings

🗓️ 24 January 2022

⏱️ 59 minutes

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Summary

In today’s episode, we cover breaking the ice with AJ, Johnny, and Michael Herold. Why is breaking the ice an important skill, what impact does it have on your health, and what strategies can you use to make breaking the ice easy and effective? What to Listen For Breaking the ice and your health – 0:00 Why should we be engaging in more small talk and why is it dangerous to our mental and physical health to spend too much time alone? What is the first obvious signal that loneliness is your new normal and what can you do to break out of that cycle? Make small talk more effective – 20:18 Why are witty one-liners ineffective at breaking the ice and what should you say instead? What questions should you avoid when meeting someone for the first time, and what questions should you ask instead? What is the easiest way to revive a conversation if you feel like it’s dying or getting awkward? Break the ice MORE OFTEN! – 30:58 How should we be looking at breaking the ice and small talk if we want more opportunities, more friends, and a more fulfilling life? How do you break the ice with someone wearing headphones? Why is making small talk important if you have goals and dreams you want to accomplish in life? It’s easy for us introverts to dismiss small talk and interactions with strangers as a waste of time. What’s the point, right? The problem with this mentality is that it ignores our human nature. We are social creatures, and as social creatures our mental and physical health will suffer if we are isolated from our tribe. That is one reason being exiled from the tribe used to be the ultimate punishment as life without the support of your fellow tribesmen surely meant death in the wild. A Word From Our Sponsors Do you LOVE the toolbox episodes? Did you know that every week we give a LIVE mini-toolbox lesson inside our Private Facebook Group? Best of all it is FREE to join. Join today and get access to all of our live training and level up your communication, leadership, influence and persuasion skills. With 14,000 members it’s a great place to network, learn and overcome any obstacle that’s in your way. Did you know that you can get the whole Art of Charm catalogue when you subscribe to Stitcher Premium using our link? That’s 15 years of podcasts featuring expert guests and toolbox episodes! Sign up today and use Code “CHARM” to get a free month! Resources from this Episode Is Efficiency Overrated?: Minimal Social Interactions Lead to Belonging and Positive Affect Art of Charm Ice Breaker Cheat Sheet Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome back to the Articharm podcast, the show designed to help you communicate with power and become unstoppable on your path from hidden genius to influential leader.

0:08.5

We know you have it, it takes to reach your full potential and that's why each and every week we share with you strategies and interviews to help you transform your life.

0:17.8

That's right. We're helping you unlock your X factor to become extraordinary, whether you're in sales, leadership, building client relationships or looking for love.

0:27.5

We got what you need and you shouldn't have to settle for anything less than extraordinary.

0:33.0

Before we kick off today's episode, did you know you can get the entire Art of Charm Back catalog?

0:39.0

That's over 15 years of podcasts featuring expert guests and our famous toolbox episodes to help you unlock those elite social skills when you subscribe to Stitcher Premium.

0:52.5

Sign up today and use code charm to get a month free at stitcher.com.

0:57.0

Johnny, this is one of my favorite toolbox topics. Our toolbox episode this month is a reboot of one of our most popular episodes ever.

1:06.0

We're taking a deep dive into breaking the ice.

1:09.5

And if you listen to this show for years, you know that conversations equal opportunities and getting into conversations where we're listening, not just talking about ourselves and gaming the other person's interest are impactful.

1:22.0

Are you ready to master small talk? We put together a free cheat sheet for you to supercharge any conversation.

1:29.0

You can grab your copy today at the Art of Charm.com slash ice, completely free. It's great to load you up with skills before you head out to your next social or business networking event.

1:40.0

Let's kick off today's toolbox episode before we get into it.

1:44.0

I just wanted to preface that I may sound a bit surly in this episode and that is due to the topic itself.

1:52.0

We have been talking about mental health for so long.

1:57.0

It's one of the parts of the show that means a lot to you and I both because we see the trajectory of mental health issues that are going on in the world right now.

2:07.0

And that has been also expedited due to the isolation and depression that the pandemic is hit.

2:13.0

And one of the things that we know that alleviates this that makes us feel better, that allows us to feel connected to the world around us is meeting people, connecting with people, building out a social circle.

2:27.0

We've discussed in the show that even micro interactions has been shown to help allow us to feel better and help with our mental health.

2:37.0

And so I got a little bit agitated during this show because for me, this is much bigger than just going out there and chatting with people.

2:46.0

This has to do with our overwhelming health as a nation.

2:51.0

And I hope those points were made. I put a little bit of force into it because I wanted to get through to our audience.

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