Boundaries
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
4.5 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 26 February 2024
⏱️ 91 minutes
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00:00 What are boundaries & limits?
21:40 Co-opting respected terms
28:01 What was the original purpose of trigger warnings?
37:08 The rise of the self-help realm
42:30 Where did boundaries come from?
53:32 Does the concept of boundaries exist in modern therapy?
1:02:35 How does differentiation apply?
1:06:37 Does Dr. Kirk feel safe podcasting?
1:18:39 An exercise in thinking systemically
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February 26, 2024
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| 0:00.0 | He's our listeners, so I thought I would read your emails and answer them today. |
| 0:05.4 | And I came across one email from Famous Patron Linden or FPL. |
| 0:11.2 | He is a listener to the podcast that goes back, I think maybe to like 2013 or something. |
| 0:16.7 | He was a big part of our lives because he would send in these questions that were just so smart and thought-provoking. |
| 0:27.0 | And he is still around and sent this really thought-provoking email and so I thought I would dedicate |
| 0:33.7 | today's episode to answering it. He is asking about boundaries and systems |
| 0:39.2 | theory and about the culture that will co-opt certain words like boundaries and so it's pretty complicated. |
| 0:49.1 | I think it'll give me a chance to talk about things that I don't normally get to talk about. |
| 0:53.0 | This will get pretty technical, I think, |
| 0:55.0 | I think we're going to get into a lot of technical language, |
| 0:57.6 | clinical language around systems and boundaries |
| 1:00.8 | and differentiation, Minutcheon, Bowen, all that stuff. |
| 1:04.0 | And I'm actually recording this intro after I recorded the whole response to his email. |
| 1:09.0 | Maybe that'll help as we move forward. |
| 1:12.0 | So let's get into the beginning of the |
| 1:13.5 | episode when I stop talking now it'll be going back in time when I first started |
| 1:18.7 | reading his email |
| 1:20.1 | f p p. p.l says I've been thinking about writing a few things. Oh first off, |
| 1:24.7 | Hi Kirk, a long time no right. I've been thinking about writing a few things |
| 1:28.3 | recently and I found this article and thought you might find it interesting. It's about boundaries and the article mentions |
| 1:35.7 | a minutcheon, Bowen, etc. All right so just chiming in here so FPL sending this article in |
| 1:41.8 | boundaries that mentions minutchen Bowen. |
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