Patriarchy, returning to abuser, and infidelity
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
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🗓️ 28 February 2024
⏱️ 70 minutes
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00:00 Is a therapist an expensive friend?
16:41 OPP
17:53 Can the legal system support victims?
31:01 OPP 2
31:55 Dr. Kirk befriends the Lyft drivers
36:31 Is there a dark side to butler syndrome?
44:32 The progression of closeness & disorganized attachment
48:55 Passive-aggressive infidelity & trust
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February 28, 2024
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| 0:00.0 | So Bob, lots of emails. I'm trying to clear the slate. Okay. Clean the slate. |
| 0:06.5 | Uh-huh. At the beginning of every year, is. Let's try to get to as many as possible. |
| 0:11.6 | Do we have a ballpark figure? Yeah, one or two. Let's shoot for that goal. |
| 0:18.1 | So this first question is from patron and YouTube member Brittany from Bellevue. She sent in an Atlantic |
| 0:26.8 | article and she actually pulled some quotes which makes it a lot easier for us to comment instead of reading |
| 0:35.8 | the whole article. So the article's title is therapy vacation long term or something like that. |
| 0:45.0 | And the first quote, Bob, tell me what you think. |
| 0:48.0 | Yeah. |
| 0:49.0 | Instead of working on problems related to his symptoms, he and his there, so instead of working on his problems related to his |
| 0:56.4 | symptoms, he and his therapist chatted about his vacations, house renovations, and office gripes. his friend, unquote. Bob, what do you think? |
| 1:12.8 | Yeah, I agree. |
| 1:13.9 | That's not a good use of time. |
| 1:15.4 | Occasionally, my therapist and I will geek out about tools |
| 1:18.1 | because we're both sort of tool nerds. |
| 1:21.1 | And sometimes that'll go most of a session. |
| 1:23.6 | What tools are he into? |
| 1:25.2 | You know, he's a DeWalt guy. |
| 1:27.2 | I'm a Makita person though, I think if I did do it again. |
| 1:29.7 | Power Tools. |
| 1:30.7 | Power Tools. Power Tools. |
| 1:31.7 | Because you're into these hand planers. |
| 1:33.0 | So you geek out on like the common sort of do-it-yourself tools. |
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