Welcome to the Girl on Top Shalyn XO podcast.

I'm your host Shalin Lester and you might know me from my YouTube channel,

where I analyze celebrity relationships and scandals for the lessons we can take into our own lives.

But here on the podcast, I answer the best questions you submitted over the past week.

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Welcome back, my darlings. Let's get relaxed. Let's get ready to receive the message because

we've got some good ones today. We've got some really good ones. So we're going to get in a

comfy place. I'm in my closet right now recording Recording my podcast. It's where I record it.

So if you picture me on the floor of my walking closet, you are accurate.

We're going to inhale through the nose.

We're going to exhale through the mouth.

And while we do this, this week's mantra is, I am not afraid to leave.

So let's do this.

In through the nose and hold. I am not afraid to leave. So let's do this. In through the nose and hold. I am not afraid to leave.

Ah, and out. One more time. Say it again. In through the nose.

I am not afraid to leave. Why is that our theme this week? Well, we're going to talk to, we're going to tackle two questions that kind of go into this.

But I've been thinking a lot about fear and how fear holds us back.

I mean, we talk about fear a lot on the channel, our fear-based brain or fear-based decisions, that crazy manic snooky brain, do this,

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