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Shalin Lester and you might know me for my YouTube channel where I analyze

celebrities and scandals for the lessons we can take into our own lives but here

on the podcast I answer the best questions you submitted over the past week.

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Welcome back, Shaligators. We're going to continue our series exploring why men love

bitches. It's our new shall literature book club selection and it's also just

something that's sort of keeping my life held together right now. I read this book every

few years and every time I do I just

feel so much more powerful and smarter and just like I'm no longer feeling my way through the dark in terms of dating and let me tell you I know what I'm doing when it comes to dating but when we catch feelings for someone or when we get our heartbroken we all all feel blind and crazy and heart sick and just

spiraling and we're looking for any sort of anchor, any sort of map or directive to tell us what to do,

and I've really really found sort of map or directive to tell us what to do.

And I've really, really found that with this book.

So you guys can get it.

There's a link in the description.

You can get it on Amazon.

Or if you go to the Shaligator's Reddit page they've got a free

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