Boundaries & Bitch Lessons
Crowned & Cancelled
Shallon Lester
4.7 • 1.1K Ratings
🗓️ 29 July 2020
⏱️ 27 minutes
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Summary
Last week we kicked off the Shalliterature book club selection,
“Why Men Love Bitches” and today I’m reading the first chapter, plus telling a Tinder tale that WMLB helped me navigate in a way I probably wouldn’t have. Pick up the book at the link below and head to the Shalligator reddit thread to chat about what you’re
learning!
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Girl on Top ShalinXO podcast. |
| 0:09.0 | I'm your host Shalin Lester and you might know me from my YouTube channel, |
| 0:13.0 | where I analyze celebrity relationships and scandals for the lessons we can take into our own lives. |
| 0:18.0 | But here on the podcast, I answer the best questions you submitted over the past week. |
| 0:22.5 | Gotta love quandary? |
| 0:23.7 | Head to my website, shalinlester.com, to get connected, and also shop my merch and take some |
| 0:28.4 | fun quizzes. |
| 0:29.5 | Be sure to rate and review this podcast if you like it, and follow me on Instagram at |
| 0:33.3 | ShaolinXO and find me on YouTube for four new videos a week. |
| 0:55.1 | Once again, we're going to do things a little bit differently on this podcast. So last episode, I introduced you guys with the latest Shill Literature Book Club selection, Why Men Love Bishes. It's by Sherry R. 2000. So it's old. Can you believe that that means it's old? Oh, my God. I feel old. You're probably only 20, so it doesn't feel old to you. Anyway, it is what, if you've read it, you refer to it as the Bible. |
| 1:00.8 | Like, people who have read this book are evangelical about it because it truly does just change |
| 1:06.5 | your perception, change your attitude, and most effectively, it'll change the course of your relationship. |
| 1:12.8 | And I know there's nothing worse than when you're dating and you just feel control slipping |
| 1:17.5 | away from you. You feel, and maybe it was never, maybe you never held the cards, but when you |
| 1:23.3 | feel it shift, you feel him get a little icy. He's taking longer to reply. You feel crazy. |
| 1:29.4 | You feel out of control. You feel incredibly gross and unattractive. And then you start acting desperate |
| 1:35.7 | and just reaching out and clutching and trying to just frantically come up with some sort of way |
| 1:41.6 | to behave to get things back where they were. And this book will |
| 1:45.0 | literally tell you how. And like, none of this is an ad. Like, I don't know this lady. I don't know the publishing house. It's just I am evangelical about this book because I've been dating. You know, I'm in a new town. I'm on Tinder. I'm out. I'm the hot new chickadey in town. And I'm a lot of horsepower, as I'm sure you guys are. |
| 2:02.6 | And not every guy knows how to drive. |
| 2:06.6 | Not all drivers are created equal, are they? |
| 2:08.6 | Well, same with dating. |
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