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Ask Dr. Julie Hanks

Bonus: Frequently Asked Questions Pt. 4

Ask Dr. Julie Hanks

Dr. Julie Hanks

Self-improvement, Society & Culture, Education, Relationships, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.6734 Ratings

🗓️ 16 May 2023

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Summary

This week Richie joins me as I answer more of your most frequently asked questions. Listen to hear answers to questions like:Is my grief over infertility related to the teaching that the most important thing for me to be is a mother?Does your husband agree with everything you post?Is lasting change possible?How do I overcome imposter syndrome?How do navigate my personal growth while also supporting my children?If you have a question you’d like to hear me answer in a future FAQ podcast episode...

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0:00.0

Welcome to Ask Dr. Julie Hanks, a safe place for healing conversations that educate and empower you to

0:23.2

prioritize your dreams, revolutionize your family, and personalize your faith. I'm your host,

0:29.2

Dr. Julie Hanks, a psychotherapist and coach offering online courses and programs to help women

0:34.5

all over the world heal themselves and their relationships.

0:38.3

Join me here every week as I coach a listener through a specific challenge and empower them

0:43.0

with tools to find healing.

0:45.3

Welcome, welcome back.

0:47.1

It is frequently asked question time.

0:50.5

So taking your questions that you submit to email or online and answering them on the podcast. Here we go. And I have Richie T with me. Hi, Richie.

1:01.1

Hey, there. Glad to be able to do this with you. We've got a lot of great questions this week. People have sent in some pretty amazing, you know, difficult, helpful. Let's just get to it. Okay.

1:13.9

The first question is, is it possible my grief over infertility was compounded by the teaching I received as a child that my most

1:25.3

important role was to be a mother? Would it be this bad if I had had

1:31.8

other options presented? Was it compounded or made worse? Yes. Because when you, when something is

1:42.0

framed as your only reason for existence.

1:46.5

Or your greatest rule.

1:48.0

Your greatest.

1:48.6

Right.

1:49.3

When you rank things like something above another contribution and then you can't reach the greatest,

1:58.6

yes, that will compound grief. And there was a second part, right?

2:05.1

Yeah. So the second part is, would it be this bad if I had had other options presented?

2:12.3

You would still have grief because even in broader society, motherhood tends to be idealized and people just assume,

2:22.4

well, women are going to want to be or will be able to be mothers. So there's kind of this

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