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Conversations with Dr. Jennifer

Betrayal Trauma, Pornography & Sex

Conversations with Dr. Jennifer

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

Self-improvement, Education, Mental Health, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.4978 Ratings

🗓️ 6 January 2022

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Summary

Zach and Darcy Spafford of The Self-Mastery Podcast: End the Porn Struggle interviewed Dr. Finlayson-Fife and discussed the roots of the issues surrounding unwanted pornography use, betrayal trauma and infidelity.  Listen to learn more about:  - The importance of seeing other people as full, complete people in their own right -  Becoming a strong agent in the world by gathering information and owning our choices  - The way vulnerability can lead us to strength and intimacy - The role self-regulation plays in compulsive behaviors  - A more strength-based model of conversations around unwanted pornography use  To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcasts is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information.  It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care.  Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions.  Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment.  The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients, and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever.  The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease.  The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Dr Finlason Fife interview archive. We are so glad that you're here.

0:09.1

I'm your host, Zach Spafford, and today I have two guests. Darcy. Hey, how you doing? I'm great. And I also have a

0:17.5

phenomenal sex therapist named Jennifer Finleyson Fife. If you don't know who she is, you really should. She's amazing.

0:24.4

She has some really great content, including a podcast that has a subscription podcast called,

0:31.9

what's it called?

0:32.7

Room for two.

0:33.8

I never looked at it.

0:35.0

I just listened to it.

0:36.2

So I love it.

0:37.6

And if you haven't gone and checked out her podcast,

0:40.2

it's amazing.

0:41.8

But today we've asked her to come and join us so that we can ask her a few questions about things that are maybe a little bit outside of what we would normally talk about but that I think are really pertinent to you guys

0:53.7

as listeners who have either struggled with pornography

0:57.0

or as the spouses or loved ones of people

1:00.2

who are struggling with pornography.

1:01.8

So, hi, welcome.

1:03.5

Hi, thanks for having me.

1:05.4

Thanks for coming.

1:06.1

Let's just pop into the questions if that's okay.

1:08.7

So a lot of my clients really spend time beating themselves up because they just look at a woman, right?

1:15.1

They see someone and they're like, I'm a terrible person because they find that person

1:19.2

attractive. I don't find that they do this so much when they don't find that person attractive,

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