So about dating. That was an episode that we had. I had fun dating you. I don't feel like we dated. We did. We did but we didn't because we were already friends one. I think we all we both are very clear that we were going to get married

So it just felt like a preliminary step to getting married. It didn't feel like...

It was dating.

I think sometimes dating is, no, I'm actually using,

like this season is to discern if this person is my spouse.

I wasn't discerning that at that point.

It just was like, we're just broke so we can't get married now.

So you knew you wanted to marry me from John.

Anyway, we talked about it. We talked about dating and just the awkwardness of that and the difficulty of that I think in general I think

dating now is hard for a lot of people especially I'm friends with people in

their 30s dating yeah that's a different thing than college day. They got kids, they got businesses.

And it's very ironic that it's hard now because you would assume because social media is such a thing.

You can meet people quicker, faster.

Because you're meeting their false self.

Yes.

Meaning them.

And also to men just have too many options and also too the false self thing is just so many people are presenting versions of themselves

that are not true.

So we need to go back to the 90s, I think, where we need to just go outside.

That's true.

That might actually be helpful.

Like when you have to get somebody number, not their social media, which meant you

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