Best of Summer 2022: J's Pick
Sex Chat for Christian Wives
Chris Taylor
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🗓️ 12 July 2022
⏱️ 36 minutes
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Summary
Today we're talking about higher desire wives. But whether your sexual interest is higher or lower than your husband, you'll benefit from our conversation.
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From the Bible
What does God have to say about higher desire wives?
- "The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife" (1 Corinthians 7:3-4).
- "Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do. But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion" (1 Corinthians 7:8-9).
- "Let us go early to the vineyards to see if the vines have budded, if their blossoms have opened, and if the pomegranates are in bloom— there I will give you my love" (Song of Songs 7:12).
- "All night long on my bed I looked for the one my heart loves; I looked for him but did not find him. I will get up now and go about the city, through its streets and squares; I will search for the one my heart loves" (Song of Songs 3:1-2).
Resources
- Episode 59: Myths We Learned from Pop Culture
- "Dealing with a Low-Desire Husband," Hot, Holy, and Humorous: Sex in Marriage by God's Design, J. Parker
- 5 Truths for High-Drive Wives – Hot, Holy & Humorous
- I Love My High Sex-Drive Sisters – OysterBed7
- Q&A with J: When It Comes to Sex, My Husband Says I'm "Too Much" – Hot, Holy & Humorous
- A Prayer for Higher-Drive Wives – Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Q&A with J: What If Hubby Is Passive in the Bedroom – Hot, Holy & Humorous
- High-Drive Wives Are Not Crockpots – Hot, Holy & Humorous
- A Letter to the Low-Drive Husband – Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Get Off Your Screen & Have Sex with Your Wife - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Q&A with J: Should A Higher Drive Spouse Lower Their Expectations? - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Webinar Replays: Understanding Your Sex Drive and Foreplay
- J's Subscription Community for HDWs
- FREE 30-day trial!
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Sex Chat for Christian Wives. I'm Chris Taylor of Honeycomb and Spice. I'm Gay Christmas of Calm, |
| 0:08.0 | healthy, sexy. I'm Jay Parker of Hot Holy and Humorous. And I'm Bonnie Burns of Strong Wives. Come up your chair to |
| 0:15.4 | our virtual kitchen table and let's chat. |
| 0:24.0 | Welcome back to Sex Chat for Christian Wives. |
| 0:28.1 | We are doing something a little different this summer and we're having a best of series. |
| 0:33.6 | We decided that the summer each of us would choose one of the episodes we especially love and play it for you again. |
| 0:36.2 | If you're a new listener, you might not have heard it. And we might |
| 0:39.6 | just have some new resources in our show notes for you. So today, we're going to have Jay's |
| 0:45.5 | favorite episode. Jay, why don't you tell us about it? Yeah, I'm really excited. I know that this is |
| 0:50.7 | going to shock no one who has listened to us for a long time, but my, |
| 0:55.5 | my episode to share again is the one on a higher desire wives. I really love that our podcast |
| 1:03.3 | recognizes that it's not always the wife who is the lower desire. Sometimes it's the husband, |
| 1:09.6 | and sometimes they're matched, |
| 1:11.2 | you know? I mean, there's all kinds of different scenarios in this. And sometimes that means |
| 1:16.4 | that the wife is wanting it a little more than her husband. And we talk about that, what it's like, |
| 1:21.8 | what to do. And it's great content. And you and I have both been in the position of being the hired |
| 1:26.8 | desire spouse. |
| 1:28.6 | So yes. Yes, we have. So even if. And yes. And so even if when the episode first came out, |
| 1:37.7 | you were not the one with a higher desire in your marriage, things might have changed since then. |
| 1:43.1 | So give us a listen. Well, we haven't even |
| 1:46.7 | recorded and I'm already predicting this will be one of my favorite episodes. Why? Because we're |
| 1:51.5 | talking about a subject near and dear to my heart, higher desire wives. Whether your sexual |
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