Welcome to Love Life, I'm your host Matthew Hussie.

Now here's a secret about men that most women don't realise.

Men really want to feel manly around you.

If you know how to make him feel like a man, he'll want to be around you day and night.

So how do you do this?

I'm going to give you my five most powerful phrases for making him feel manly around you

right after we get into today's topic.

I thought I'd do something a little interesting today on Love Life and help people understand

what vulnerability really is.

Because so many women, when I tell them that vulnerability is attractive,

they immediately associate it with weakness in their own minds.

And because they do that, they don't want to be vulnerable.

I want to be a strong woman, I want to be independent, I want to be self-sufficient.

I don't want to be perceived as weak.

Now here's the interesting part of that.

Weakness and vulnerability are two very different things.

Vulnerability originates from a Latin word which means to wound.

In other words, the ability to be wounded.

That's what it is to be vulnerable.

That you can be wounded, you can be hurt.

Now that doesn't imply weakness.

In essence, it really just takes honesty to admit that you can be wounded, that you can be hurt.

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