Hey, welcome back to the Personality Hacker Podcast. My name is Joe Mark Witt.

And I'm Antonia Dodge. We are continuing to talk today in what is emerging is a short little series

around relationships, falling in love and

today we want to talk a little bit about this idea of finding the right person for

yourself finding Mr. or Miss Wright, you know, finding that person that you're

going to be in relationship with. I was speaking to a friend of mine, a female friend of mine who's

around 25 years old and so she's a millennial and she's

happily married she's in a marriage relationship but I was asking her about some of

her female friends and I was just trying to get a sense of what is it that women in her

demographic that aren't married yet that aren't in you know long

committed relationships yet what is it that they're looking to what is it that they see as their path to

relationship romance falling in love what how do they how do they interpret this

and as we got talking a couple of things emerged from the conversation.

One was, and this is again just for her and her experience of her friends, so I don't know if this is again, all

young people at this age group but what I understood from her

and her friends their conversations her friends have a very idealistic

viewpoint of what their relationships are going to be.

This very, almost one size fits all relationship,

when they find the right person,

you know, in this case they're females that are looking for men so

when they find Mr. Wright quote unquote this is going to be the epic

relationship this is going to be this amazing love bonded relationship, this ideal.

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