Hi, welcome back to the Personality Hacker Podcast. My name is Joel Mark Witt.

And I'm Antonio Dodge. We've been talking about relationships in the past few episodes and we're going to

continue on the short series of relationships talking about romantic relationships and how you

show up to them as a person. Today we want to talk a little bit about healthy

relationships. And Tony and I were thinking in terms of how would we, we're going to

talk about how do you define a healthy relationship and we realize that we have a little bit of different definitions

maybe, what we look toward is healthy relationships.

And we were gonna try to sync up our ideas on it

and some of the things that we thought about.

And we thought, you know what, actually be an interesting idea each of us separately

make a list of maybe the top five markers that we would look toward for a healthy romantic

relationship whether it's our relationship or observing a relationship

from the outside, we'll write those down and then we'll each go one at a time down our list

back and forth, back and forth down through all five of them and then talk about them as we go

through it because this is a very subjective list it's something you can't I

there's no objective criteria for what's a healthy relationship this is

subjective to you and I think the the inspiration in this or what we hope to inspire you to do as you're

listening is to create your own list of what you look for

as a markers of healthy relationships, whether you're looking to your parents,

other couples,

or even in your own relationship that you have a part of.

Yeah, I was going to say, I don't know if we define

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