Right up, this is your homey Lisa Bilyu here and I wonder, have you ever looked at someone who's crazy successful and thought, wow, they must be one in a trillion and there's no way I can be or do that. Well, get ready, Maho Mi, because today's episode is all about showing you that you absolutely can be that anomaly too. No matter wherever you're starting from. Now, it's totally possible if and yes, that's a big if. If you have the right mindset, the right strategies because of course that's important and the right approach and that's why today I've brought on the amazing fricking badass coach Stormy. Now her name should say it all guys. This is an absolute fricking force of nature Now she's known for having massive multi-million dollar success in marketing and direct sales. But you actually know that she got with a ton of adversity that you only actually see in movies. Now I'm not going to give everything away but throughout her childhood she was caught up in a life of hustling, drug dealing, stripping and a fake booty that went utterly wrong. But she's overcome all of that and is using her wealth, her knowledge and her influence to help teach other women just like you how to absolutely not only embrace your authenticity but how to absolutely show up like a freaking badass, take unfortunately the hard knocks that come with business. Now, get ready to learn what it actually takes to be that person because my girl coach stormy is breaking down the exact steps that she had to take in order for her to rebuild herself and her confidence to go from being a teen mum stripping on food stamps to who she is today, the multi-million dollar entrepreneur and an inspiration to women all around the world. Now she's sharing a technique called Rich, RICH strategy that you can actually use to stay grounded, be authentic, push away the haters and focus on your journey to a transformation life so that you can become that confident badass that you really want to be and why you actually listen to women of impact in the first place. Now we also talk about the exact tactics because tactics are everything Maholmi that you can use to stand up for yourself in a respectful way when someone disrespects you and the actual steps that you need to take to go from your lowest of the lowest to developing amazing, resilient, freaking bad-ass confidence. Now once you're then absorbing the higher wisdom that comes from coach stormy, you'll be ready to start rebuilding your life immediately and actually start to believe for a fat guy that no matter where you are right now, you can change your life and it all starts right here. So buckle up because things are going to be one heck of a ride with my girl coach stormy. Now guys if you got kids get them out of the room for this episode because I'm telling you it's going to be a hot, heavy one but I can't freaking wait for you to listen. So let's just dive in right now with my girl coach Stulmi.

I used to be that girl.

I used to be that girl that let them say anything and do anything. And then what I would do is beat myself up. And I would cheat myself like I was dirt. And I realized, no, you could be the anomaly. Own in your power not being afraid to be confident. Not being afraid to be vulnerable either because whatever you tolerate will persist.

I'm a bad motherfucker.

I'm a bad bitch.

I'm beautiful. I'm fly. I'm un-fuck-with-able. I'm unexplainable. I don't tolerate or play with bullshit. I have respect for myself. I have integrity. I have character. And a lot of people just can't take it. How the hell from where you started from? Wow. Have you been able to build such damn resilient confidence? I gotta tell you, you know, I was tired of not having confidence. I was tired of shrinking myself in the room that I was going to as an entrepreneur. I meet a lot of women and what I've noticed is that when women get around each other, there's not a lot of love, there's a lot of jealousy, a lot of insecurities, a lot of back biting. And so I wanted to be the woman that maintained who I am. Like when I used to be, you know, like on full stamps, on station eight, when I was, you know, in foster care, a young girl, when I was growing up, I didn't have a lot of support

and a lot of friends.

And so I made it in my mind that once I, you know, got mature and grew up, that I was gonna be that person that embodied everything that I wish I got from other people. So I played this game with myself, it's called observing myself. So I kind of look at myself as a second person.

So it's stormy and then it's stormy.

So stormy watch it stormy.

So I'm aware of how I as a second person. So it storm me and then it storm me.

So storm me watch it storm me.

So I'm aware of how I'm moving, how I'm talking, what I'm doing, how I'm showing up. And I remember that that wasn't always me. And so being in rooms, feeling like I don't wanna, you know, letting nobody see me because I don't wanna intimidate her or I don't wanna hurt a judge me was really challenging for me.

But once I realized that no, you could be the anomaly,

only your power not being afraid to be confident,

not being... or I don't want her to judge me, was really challenging for me. But once I realized that no,

you could be the anomaly,

only your power, not being afraid to be confident, not being afraid to be vulnerable either, not being afraid to be transparent. That's the freaking superpower. And so I know it. And I know that captures a lot of people's attention. So thank you for seeing me. Did I see you? And let's talk about then, and how you then created the anomaly.

Because if everything you just said is super freaking powerful,

but in all of that is the mess and it's the mess that people get lost in that they're not able to then come out the other side and be Frickin stormy So let's just go back to your childhood. Your mom was traffic and drugs and you at the age of 13 found yourself in a house without a mother with no running water. Because it's in these stories that you were able, I believe, to cultivate a skill set that has allowed you to then take it into your adulthood. My parents said you're making decent. My mom didn't graduate from high school,

never went to college.

My mom was a drug dealer.

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