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Do This, NOT That: Marketing Tips with Jay Schwedelson

Ask Us ANYTHING: Stop Believing Your Inner Critic 🎯AND Best Movies Ever Ranking? | Ep. 439

Do This, NOT That: Marketing Tips with Jay Schwedelson

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Growth, Education, Email, Business, Revenue, How To, Entrepreneurship, Marketing, Profit, B2b, B2c

5 • 715 Ratings

🗓️ 31 October 2025

⏱️ 9 minutes

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Summary

Most of us have that voice in our head that says we’re not ready, not good enough, or just faking it—and Jay Schwedelson is here to shut that voice up for good. In this episode, Jay explains how negative self-talk sneaks into your brain, why it’s so convincing, and the weird trick he uses to stop it instantly. Plus, he somehow ties it all back to Mean Girls, Rocky, and Eddie Murphy.

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Best Moments:

(01:15) Why switching careers into marketing isn’t as hard as you think

(02:18) The sneaky power of negative self-talk and how everyone falls for it

(03:49) What UCLA’s research says about how self-doubt rewires your brain

(05:14) The hilarious but effective way Jay shuts up his inner critic

(07:00) Jay’s unapologetic list of the greatest movies ever made

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to Do This Not That, the podcast from marketers. We share quick tips, things you can do right now, and then we add a little bit of chaos at the end of every episode. We also keep it short like this intro. Let's check it out.

0:16.1

We are back for Ask Us Anything from the Do This Not That podcast. This is our short episode. We're all week long. We get in questions. We get in work questions. We get in ridiculous questions. We try to tackle one of each. If you want to ask a question, that would be awesome. Just go to jswettleson.com. There's a button that says podcast. Another one that says, ask us anything. We love questions. It can be wild, ridiculous. doesn't matter. Let's jump into it though. Let's do the work question first. We got a question from Stacey, from Sarasota, Florida. I have never been to Sarasota. I've lived in Florida for over 30 years. I'm on the East Coast, Bocertone. And I feel like, I feel like Stacey, you're probably nice because nice people live in Sarasota. I live in Bocarton where everybody's obnoxious, myself included, a bunch of former like northeastern horrendous people. That's why I'm not allowed to go to Sarasota, because I'm horrendous. Anyway, you're not, though. Stacey, what's your question? Jay, I just moved into marketing after a career in a totally unrelated

1:12.8

field. I feel like I don't have the right background and won't be able to catch up and be a real

1:18.8

marketer. Any advice on how to rapidly get better at this marketing stuff? All right, well,

1:24.9

super fair question, but the reality of it is you're not moving into becoming a CPA.

1:29.0

You're not moving into becoming a lawyer or a doctor or anything that requires a really serious degree.

1:35.4

No offense to all the marketers out there.

1:37.0

I don't care if you got certified in whatever.

1:39.0

Who are you kidding?

1:40.4

This ain't that, all right?

1:41.9

So Stacey, you can do this. You'll figure it out and you're

1:45.7

probably better than the majority of marketers that are out there right now because the majority

1:49.7

of marketers out there right now are just following what they've learned from the last 20 years

1:53.1

and they have no new ideas. So you're probably going to crush everybody, but more important than that.

1:58.1

Okay. In general, what you are really doing is this idea of negative self-talk.

2:05.7

And this is something we all, every one of us, myself included, we need to stop doing. It doesn't

2:12.3

matter what it is. I had this early on in my career as well. And we all have done it, right? I would say to

2:19.2

myself, oh, I'm not smart enough to do this. At the start of my career, I'm too young, okay?

2:25.3

I don't know the right people. I'm not very smart. I don't have the right background. I'm not

2:31.2

technical enough. I'm introverted. I'm scared to publicly speak.

2:34.8

400 other things. All right. And then in my head, in all our heads, we all do this. We maybe we

2:42.1

don't say it out loud, but we put it in our heads and we put it. We say it on repeat, nonstop.

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