Welcome to the awesome marriage podcast. I'm your co-host, Christina Dodson. This is an Ask

Dr. Kim segment where people submit their questions for Dr. Kim, Kimberly, and he answers them.

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Today on Ask Dr. Kim, this particular segment, the question that we got was, why should I I as a woman, initiate sex with my husband?

What a great question and one that I feel like a lot of women ask on a regular basis.

Tarshkan, why do you think that this is so important that wives are doing this?

They're the ones who not only are engaging in sexual intercourse with their spouse, but being the

one to initiate it. Yeah, because a number of ways.

One, I think in most couples, the man has a higher sex tribe and the men thinks about sex more.

So he is going to be the one that's going to initiate.

Most of the times, it's just most, I mean every couple's this before, our real, our real satisfaction comes from knowing we place our lives and knowing they want to be with us.

Well, when you initiate, you're right there from the start, you're telling him that you want to be with him, that you want to have sex with him.

And, and I think that's just a great message you want to send your husband.

And, and, you know, you just, I just know there's a difference.

I mean, I just think when I know that Nancy thinks about it and that she's one who initiates, I don't know, it just kind of thinks you're thinking, oh, yeah, that's pretty cool. You know, my wife cares about me in that way. And this is important to her.

And she's not just being an obedient wife all the time.

And this really is something that she values to in our marriage relationship.

And so I think that's, you know, I think that's really important for a wife to understand.

I think it's so easy to look at your husband says, you know, this is just this, you know, all I think is about sex,

blah, blah, blah, blah.

But the fulfillment is really from knowing that he places his wife and she enjoys that.

And that's a real joy in that.

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