Welcome to the awesome marriage podcast. I'm your co-host, Christina Dodson. This is an Ask

Dr. Kim segment where people submit their questions for Dr. Kim, Kim, and he answers them.

Thanks for listening. So today on Ask Dr. Kim, the question is, how am I supposed to know if I found

the right person to marry? What a great question. And I think

one that a lot of us really struggle with when we're talking about, you know, boyfriends or girlfriends

and engagement. It's just a huge decision. And so it's, it's, it's, it makes sense that you would

struggle and wrestle with this. And so Dr. Kim, is there an undeniable way to know if you have found the right person to marry or not?

I know everybody wants to say yes and then tell them, right?

I don't know.

I don't think there is.

You know, I don't think there is.

Now, what I do know is that once you're married and you commit yourself before God, he will do everything you allow him to do that make that marriage work.

You know, and so is it, is it an uneniable way to know it? No, I don't think there's a perfect formula you can go through and say, okay, this is the person. It's not like they've got somewhere

on them tattooed. I'm supposed to marry. You know, you like this. And, and you know there's not most likely the stars aren't going to align

in some great pattern that gives you a sign like that yeah certainly not I agree and I think that

that that's why what makes it so hard is it's such a big decision I remembered I struggled with this so

much when dylan and I were talking about marriage and just after we had been dating for a few

years in college I really struggled and like spent hours upon hours, like so stressed out,

deliberating, making pros and con list, like, and praying and just trying to figure out was I

supposed to marry Dylan because I really believed that I could like ruin God's plan for my life.

And I was so stressed about like, well, should I marry Dylan?

If I married Dylan and I wasn't supposed to, my other husband's out there.

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