Ask Angry - How Do I Stop Being Sexually Upset With My Partner?
The Angry Therapist Podcast
John Kim
4.6 • 1.1K Ratings
🗓️ 31 January 2024
⏱️ 19 minutes
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Summary
In this episode, John answers and gives advice on two listeners' questions: how do I stop being sexually mad at my partner, and should I tell her before we go on vacation? And how do I let go of a break up that I can't get over?
Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own |
| 0:04.3 | rebirth many years ago and I've been documenting my journey ever since sharing my life |
| 0:08.9 | lessons and revelations. I believe in casual or clinical with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose |
| 0:16.2 | because self-help doesn't have to be so complicated. |
| 0:22.0 | Welcome to another episode of Ask Angry. I've been answering questions since 2010. |
| 0:28.0 | That's what is that is is 20, almost 24 years. Holy shit. That is like, that is like, that is like a, that's like a friend. You have a friend that's 24 years old, right? Anyway, let's get right to your questions |
| 0:50.0 | sexually pissed at my wife. Do I tell her before vacation or after vacate is tomorrow? |
| 0:58.0 | First of all, I've never heard the term sexually pissed. |
| 1:02.0 | I guess he is saying he's angry because of something that |
| 1:07.5 | happens in the bedroom or happened or maybe. Oh I think I know what he's saying. He's saying he's sexually pissed at my... |
| 1:16.0 | I think what he's saying is that his wife is not having sex with them and they're about to go on vacation. |
| 1:22.0 | It starts tomorrow, do I tell her? Okay, whatever |
| 1:27.6 | it's about the fact that there is anger and resentment and you guys are about to go on vacation can actually |
| 1:35.6 | destroy the vacation I've seen it happen many times also I've experienced it |
| 1:42.3 | myself any kind of anger and resentment, I mean unless it's, you know, something so big that it requires a mediator, a therapist, a couple's counselor, unless it's something that can't be resolved. |
| 1:59.0 | Because in that case, and I think it would be irresponsible. |
| 2:04.0 | But if it's something that happened and you're angry about it or something that didn't happen and you're |
| 2:09.2 | angry about it, yes, you should definitely express |
| 2:16.0 | talk about communicate to your wife about before the vacation I think now that being said |
| 2:26.7 | you got to know there's a vacation coming and this is not a time to bring up something that isn't resolvable, meaning, and this is what I mean by something big in the relationship, |
| 2:38.0 | like if this is a topic that isn't resolvable and you're bringing it up right before you go on vacation, I've been guilty of this. |
| 2:47.2 | It is irresponsible. |
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