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Hi, this is Janet Lansbury.

Hi, this is Janet Lansbury. Welcome to Unruffled. Today I'm going to be responding to a question,

a couple of questions actually that I'm often asked and by the way I love any kinds of

questions that you send me so please keep them coming. The questions are around

what does your approach respectful parenting or the Rye approach look like as

children get older? Does Rye end at two years old? What do you do then? What approach do you go to after that?

Sometimes they'll ask me who does what you do but for older kids?

And by older they might mean kids be... but for older kids.

And by older they might mean kids beyond three or four or five years old.

So I thought I would take this opportunity

to clarify some things about this approach I teach in my background.

So what I've called respectful parenting is my interpretation of Magda Gerber's education approach,

commonly known as the Rye approach,

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