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What does equal look like in your marriage?

I know this wasn't the intent of the real on Instagram,

but when I watched it, man, she made me feel like a slacker.

Like I was failing. man she made me feel like a slacker.

And like I was failing big time when it came to like an equal sharing of responsibilities

in my relationship with my husband.

Interesting, okay?

So her name is Abby Ekel.

She posted this reel of what equal looks like in her marriage.

Now, she goes on to say that does not mean it's what equal should could or

would like like in someone else's so just because this is what works for

them isn't necessarily what's gonna work for me you whomever but listening to it, I know there are, and speaking in generalizations,

there's a lot of women out there who feel they handle a majority of the mental load, the emotional load, especially when it comes to being

married with kids, right? And that they would, they seek having an equal partner and I'm sure we're salivating at this video and this real listening

to her and what her husband does for her the kids and their family.

I have an equal partner I don't have to make him a list I have an equal partner. I don't have to make him a list. I have an equal

partner. I don't have to ask him to help with things around the house. I have an equal

partner. He knows how to shop at the grocery store without pictures. I have an equal

partner. He doesn't expect me to handle everything alone. I have an equal partner. He doesn't expect me to handle everything alone. I have an equal partner. He plans date nights without me having to beg for it.

I have an equal partner. He does his own laundry. I have an equal partner. He makes his own appointments. I have an equal partner. I have an equal partner.

My stocking has never been empty.

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